Parental Consent

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Parental Consent: Which State Allows 12 year olds to Marry With Parental Consent. Hint: It Starts with an "M". Which state has no minimum age limit?
Parental Consent - Abortion

Parental Consent: Which State Allows 12 year olds to Marry With Parental Consent. Hint: It Starts with an "M". Which state has no minimum age limit?


In every state, women and men must be at least 18 years old to marry without parental consent. And, Nebraska requires you to be 19 while in Mississippi and Puerto Rico, you must be 21. And, while there are exceptions in some states if people have previously been married, are commonlaw married, married by proxy, or pregnant, the age requirement to be married with parental consent in some states might be surprising. See how you faired:

a. What state has no age limit - California
b. What state requires girls to be 13 - New Hampshire. (The boy must be 14).
c. And what state, that starts with an "M", allows 12 year old girls and 14 year old boys to marry?  Massachusetts.

Furthermore, there are seven states that allow younger girls to marry with parental consent.

Parental Consent - Abortion


The rules about abortion are different depending on where you live. In some states, you can get an abortion without telling your parents. In others, there are Parental Consent or Parental Notification laws.

The chart below shows the current situation for each state (last updated on 7/2007). There is also information on state law makers that may be trying to change the law, which can happen at anytime. You can find detailed information on your reproductive rights and monthly reports on Parental Consent/Notification laws at the website for the Alan Guttmacher Institute .

If you are thinking about an abortion and live where there is a Parental Consent/Notification law, it's a good idea to call a clinic in your state (or the Abortion Hotline at 1-800-772-9100) and talk with someone about your options. Usually you can get around telling your parents by going to a clinic in a state without these restrictions or, explaining your situation to a judge (this is called Judicial Bypass ). But this can take time, so call right away.

Parental Consent Laws are enacted on a state by state basis. They can be fought state by state too, so get involved with your local Abortion Rights organizations.

State Status Comments

Alabama PC

Alaska NONE PN law stopped by court

Arizona PC

Arkansas PC

California NONE PC law stopped by court

Colorado PN

Connecticut NONE

Delaware PN applies only to girls under 16 years old; notice may also be to grandparent or counselor; doctor can bypass

Washington NONE

Florida PN

Georgia PN

Hawaii NONE

Idaho PC PC law is back as of March 2007

Illinois NONE PN law stopped by court. Still stopped!

Indiana PC

Iowa PN also allows consent of grandparent instead

Kansas PN

Kentucky PC

Louisiana PC

Maine NONE

Maryland PN doctor can bypass

Massachusetts PC

Michigan PC

Minnesota PN2

Mississippi PC2

Missouri PC

Montana NONE PN stopped by court

Nebraska PN

Nevada NONE PN stopped by court

New Hampshire NONE PN law stopped by court

New Jersey NONE PN law stopped by court

New Mexico NONE PC law stopped by court

New York NONE

North Carolina PC also allows consent of grandparent instead

North Dakota PC2

Ohio PC

Oklahoma PN & PC Law requiring both started 11/2006

Oregon NONE

Pennsylvania PC

Rhode Island PC

South Carolina PC Women under 17 years old; also allows for consent of grandparent

South Dakota PN

Tennessee PC

Texas PC Law since 10/99 Thanks to Gov. George W. Bush

Utah PN & PC

Virginia PC also allows consent of grandparent instead

Vermont NONE

Washington NONE

West Virginia PN doctor can bypass

Wisconsin PC also allows other family members over 25 to consent; doctor can bypass

Wyoming PC

Legend: PC = Parental Consent; PN = Parental Notification; NONE = No PC or PN are required now; 2 = Both parents required

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