The profane Trump presidency, the accelerating corporate take-over of the US, and the further destruction of government social programs make it hard to be both a realist and an optimist. We cant just look at the half of the glass thats full and disregard the empty half.
On top of it all, that glass is far from half full. Its flowing over for the richest 10% or fewer of US citizens.
Yet many of the other 90% -- so many of whom are deluded victims of this administration -- have been bamboozled into believing that the right-wing social agenda, including deporting foreign workers, restoring white supremacy, or undoing marriage equality, is the real solution to their problems.
But an inability to be optimistic doesnt mean that pessimism is the only alternative. No matter how we feel about the future, theres a better, empowering, and realistic choice that can change things.
Its to opt for hope. Hope is a conscious decision.
Hopelessness, on the other hand, is a feeling. But that doesnt make it worthless.
Hopelessness is, like anger, a secondary emotion that actually prevents us from feeling those emotions that lie beneath it: fear, hurt, powerlessness, and confusion. Its a real clue that theres something deeper.
Author-activist Paul Rogat Loeb, documents hope in The Impossible Will Take a Little While: Perseverance and Hope in Troubled Times (in its second edition). His is a collection of voices thats a must read now when things look bleakest.
The experience of Vaclav Havel, former Czechoslovakian president, provides just one example. Three years before the Communist dictatorship fell, Havel wrote, Hope is not prognostication. It is an orientation of the spirit, an orientation of the heart. His experience is one of many that show that a series of seemingly futile and insignificant actions can bring down an empire.
Even in what appears to be a losing cause, one person may knowingly inspire another, and then another, who could go on and change the world.
Loeb tells of a friend who in the early 1960s in a pouring rain joined a small vigil in front of the White House protesting nuclear testing. A few years later famous baby doctor Benjamin Spock, who influenced thousands, spoke at a much larger march against the Viet Nam War, telling the crowd that his inspiration was that small group of women he saw by chance huddled with their kids in the rain. I thought that if those women were out there, their cause must be really important.
From his cell, Nelson Mandela speaks of how to survive prison intact, emerge undiminished, and conserve and replenish ones hope. Add to that Susan B. Anthonys words: cautious, careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputation and social standing, never can bring about a reform.
We hear Native American writer Sherman Alexies hope: Everything is stuffed to the brim with ideas and love and hope and magic and dreams.
Gay, Tony-award-winning playwright Tony Kushner writes that despair is a lie we tell ourselves, reminding us of the words of Martin Luther King, Jr. that the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.
Then theres Cornell West saying: To live is to wrestle with despair yet never to allow despair to have the last word.
In other essays we read of the creativity of people who carried on against great odds and were there to see the powers fall. They often never thought they were activists; they merely tried to end what was hurting them or their families.
We read others who fought for progressive values even though they didnt expect to see results in their lifetime. But these were activists, Loeb reminds us, who believed that, living with conviction is of value in itself regardless of the outcome.
Giving up on life and the living, Loeb argues, is really a form of arrogance. Alice Walkers testimony Only Justice Can Stop a Curse, examines that arrogance in the politics of bitterness.
So, for our own lives, our own good, our own conscience and integrity, we seem to have no choice other than acting out of hope.
Life is a gamble, historian Howard Zinn writes. Not to play is to foreclose any chance of winning. To play, to act, is to create at least a possibility of changing the world.
Settling for personal change isnt enough to make our lives worth living or to ensure the world we want. Giving up in cynicism and pessimism will eat us up from the inside and allow those whod hurt us to destroy the outside. Weve been made for more.
Loeb: We cant afford the sentimental view that mere self-improvement, no matter how noble in intention, is enough. Nor can we afford to succumb to fear.
Its hard to do justice to a collection like The Impossible Will Take a Little While. Snippets of these inspiring writings make them seem trite and precious.
But when you sit down to take in these brief essays, the effect is cumulative, hope-inspiring. The words never deviate from the realities of facing the often-cruel societies others have made because these represent the stories of real people. And they inspire those of us who feel we have only a small garden to hoe, not an empire to redirect.
But I cant resist the hope in words such as these from Benjamin Mays, mentor to Dr. King: The tragedy of life doesnt lie in not reaching a goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach. It isnt a calamity to die with dreams unfilled, but it is a calamity not to dream. It is not a disgrace not to reach the stars, but it is a disgrace to have no stars to reach for.
Hope is realistic, and its a choice. I prescribe it for you now.
© 2018 Robert N. Minor
Robert N. Minor, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus at the University of Kansas, is author of When Religion Is an Addiction; Scared Straight: Why Its So Hard to Accept Gay People and Why Its So Hard to Be Human; and Gay & Healthy in a Sick Society. Contact him at www.FairnessProject.org
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