Dumb Games and the Girls That Play
I have a question about girls that play
hard to get. I know you tell guys (and
girls) not to play this game, but Ive read
other articles that say that girls should do this.
Whats your take on that?
The "other side" is bullshit. Here's why:
1) What's the difference between some girl that
plays these games and a girl that is simply not
interested in you? Answer: nothing - they seem to
be exactly the same. Why would you waste your time
on someone that isn't interested when there are so
many great girls out there that are?
2) Playing these "dumb girl games" ("DGG's")
makes you play your hand and keeps the girl from
doing the same. Thus, you have absolutely no idea
where she's coming from.
3) In reality, girls that do this are never of
the value they want you to think they are. In fact,
the vast majority of men that ever do get with
these girls realize they weren't worth all the
effort in the first place! Consider this: a girl
can either put all her effort into becoming a great
partner for the guy she wants to meet or she can
put almost no effort in and play these stupid
games. Which girl would you rather be with?
4) Game-players should just carry two signs
around their necks:
a) "I don't know what I'm doing. Feel free to
come play me, use me and dump me."
b) "I'm all-game and nothing more. Please don't
expect too much from me because if I had any real
skills or real value, I wouldn't need these games
in the first place!"
5) Ultimately, this is about power - who has it
and who reacts to it. Power is the #1 most
important thing that women find attractive in men.
Powerful men don't play these games with girls.
They decide what they want up front and find women
that will give it to them. Seriously: do you think
that Brad Pitt or Sean Connery or anyone that
already has the power would play these DGG's?
6) These games were originally forged during a
time when dating was very different - as I said,
during the time of your grandparents. Gender roles
were very different for instance - and so were
expectations. Girls today have a real sense of
entitlement. They actually think that they deserve
men that are in the top 5% of every category when
they, themselves aren't even in the top 50%! They
want to "date up". Men that are willing to play
these games, prove that they aren't in the top 5%.
Thus, they lose value and in the vast majority of
the cases - the girl too.
7) Frankly, all of this is pretty humiliating!
Why would any self-respecting man accept being put
through all of this in the first place? Answer: he
wouldn't. Only men that lack self-respect do this.
Further, by actually playing the game, you further
erode your own self-image because you always wind
up feeling like an idiot for getting played!
8) What most of the dumb girls don't understand
about this is that there are actually guys that
WILL play these games with them - willingly! The
problem is that these guys aren't into the girls at
all. They are into the games. Thus, as soon as they
"win", they bang the girl and then dump her looking
for someone else to play them with. These girls get
very jaded very quickly and actually begin blaming
the guys instead of the game!
9) There are so many BETTER ways to deal with
women! This is a loss-leader from the very
beginning and just goes down from there.
10) As I said before, this all comes from a time
when things were very different. The so-called
"experts" in those articles don't know at all what
they're doing or recommending. They heard it from
someone else and simply vomited it back up as their
own. Thus, they don't even know why this stuff
doesn't work and just go around doing damage to
those people that actually buy into this ridiculous
crap - all without having any real tools to
11) Most guys today don't know these games,
don't know how to play them and don't know why
doing so is such an end-game. Again, a power and
12) When a girl starts on this path, how does
she ever get off of it? If she just "comes clean"
she seems like she was lying about things all along
- and then becomes a girl you can't trust anyway.
If she never lets on, you'll lose interest pretty
damn quickly. Why would you continue to take this
sort of rude beating over and over again when there
so many smarter - and frankly, much, much better -
girls out there? Answer: you won't.
Do I need to go on?