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14 Kinds Of Kisses That Will Make Her Horny. … Well, Hopefully!

Ok, these kisses are what women have told me, so pay attention.

Women love to kiss and hug, so part of satisfying her and being a good lover is to know how to be a good kisser. And believe it or not, long sessions of kissing, lasting at least twenty minutes, can actually have some women come to an orgasm. Kissing for her is very sensuous for them.

But, nearly all men think that kissing means she wants sex. It doesn’t! There’s a time for just kissing, and, a time for kissing and sex. Don’t mix the two up. Most women like to just kiss and kiss and kiss, so don’t spoil it for her by grabbing her breasts. She will let you know, or you both will know just by the look in each other’s eyes when it’s time. Until then, hands off! Give her your trust so she knows that the both of you can kiss without the sex being involved. She may have had bad experiences with guys in the past who went too fast, too soon.

Also, on those first dates, don’t French kiss her, opening the mouth and/or sticking your tongue in her mouth, unless she initiates it, since this is more sexual.

Men dive right into it. Show her that you are different by starting with simple kisses only. The following are tips to make you more appealing and to get her hormones going before you lend her your lips:

1. Always have fresh breath. Floss and brush your teeth at least twice a day. Brush your tongue because that’s the main area you want to keep clean. Use A LOT of breath mints. Nothing can spoil the mood faster than bad breath!

2. Use a flavored lipgloss if you have chapped lips. Better yet, use it even if you don’t have chapped lips. She’ll love the taste. Don’t use some bad-tasting Vaseline or anything she may not like. Now if you don’t like her lipstick, don’t be afraid to tell her so. Maybe she has a flavored brand you may enjoy.

3. Have a clean-shaven face. Most, not all, women prefer this. They like to kiss a face that’s baby soft. Some women like stubble, but most don’t.

4. Don’t forget to wear one of the women’s favorite colognes. It’s much better when you smell great for her while you are kissing her.

Now you are ready for some kissing and gentle biting that she probably very rarely receives from a man. Just remember, just like making love to her, you have to be slow and passionate. That is one of the things most (NOT ALL) women think makes a man a good lover.

1. Shy Kiss: This is the kind of kiss you should start off with, whether it’s a first date or not. Start off by giving her that look. You know, the kind of look a person gives when they want to kiss you. Look kind of sexy towards her, looking at her lips and deep into her eyes. Give her a devilish, child-like smile. Move your face towards hers slowly, still looking at her lips and eyes. Look for any reaction from her while doing this. Does she want you to kiss her or is it a definite no? Move in closer until you are about two inches from her lips. Now stop for a brief moment and look into her eyes, and then at her lips. Then give her a light kiss on her lips. Move away a couple of inches, no more, and see how she reacts to this? Of course this is the best on those first dates.

2. Passionate Kiss: Start off slowly by giving her small, little kisses at the corner of the mouth, and then switching to the other side of the corner, going back and forth, all the while moving closer to the center of her lips. Move slowly and passionately until you are at the center of her lips. Then run your fingertip across her lips and then pucker up and lay one on her, holding her face with both of your hands on the last kiss. The kiss on the center of her lips should last at least thirty seconds. Use your lips to tug on hers and slightly bite on her lips at the same time.

Two other variations to this is to hold the back of the head with just one hand, while using your other hand to hold her cheek. The second variation is to hold her head with both hands so you can massage and scratch her head gently, and to gently pull on her hair, while kissing her. Women love this last variation. Massaging, slow scratching, and especially gently pulling her hair as you are kissing her is something women don’t get from men. Also, rub your cheek up against hers a few times, while still holding her other cheek or the back of her head. This is a must! Try it!

3. Static Kiss: Without touching one another, stand face to face on a rug, and start rubbing your feet across the carpet. Then lean forward and kiss her. I read one lame book on this subject that stated you should do it in the dark, because that way you can see the spark. You can’t see it because of the position your face is in. Pass on that not-thought-out idea.

4. Open-Mouth Kiss: This is a combination of French kissing and opening both of your mouths, pressing them together, and then closing them and puckering at the same time. It’s sort of like closing your mouth around an ice-cream cone and then puckering your lips as you are completing the sucking of the ice cream. But, let her initiate it first, because she may not want to go that far.

5. Combination Bite & Kiss: Bite her neck, jawbone and ears, while kissing at the same time. Use your teeth to gently pinch her skin, breathing softly on her skin and ears at the same time, especially her ears. Biting can be very sensuous for her, so make sure you do a lot of this.

6. Tease Her Kiss: Start by using the tip of your index finger and slightly run it across her lips and cheeks. Then put your face a couple of inches from hers and just stare into her eyes, gazing around her hair and face for about 10 seconds. Talk with your eyes. Then slightly kiss her on the lips. Repeat the step. This time give her two small kisses. Then grab her face, cup it in your hands and lay a big one on her for about 30 seconds, without moving your lips. Just remain motionless.

7. Eye Kiss: Give her a kiss on her eye, and then slowly kiss the other. This will give her a warm feeling. Yet another kiss men don’t do. So she will love this also.

8. Eskimo Kiss: Kiss like an Eskimo by kissing with a lot of small pecks all over her face, at the same time rubbing your nose up against hers, going side to side and up and down.

9. Ear Kiss: Kiss and slightly nibble her ears, breathing on them slightly at the same time. Use your tongue to trace around her ear. Suck on her ear lobes, because she especially loves that! Tell her that you love her ears. Make sure your breath hits her ear as you are saying this. As for the tongue in her ear...well, since most women don’t like it, it’s best to stay away from doing that one.

10. Body Kiss: This is where you use a combination of biting, kissing and licking all the way down her body to her toes. Have her just lay there, naked, with her eyes closed.

11. Swoon Kiss: Tilt her head slightly to the side and cradle her face in one of your hands, while you hold the back of her head with the other.

12. The Rocking Kiss: As both you and your partner’s lips are still touching, rock your heads from side to side, letting your noses rub against each other. You rock your head to the left, as she rocks hers to the right, going from side to side.

13: Upside-down Kiss: This is a totally different kind of kiss because it confuses our brain. Our brain isn’t use to the position our heads are in when kissing. Try it, and you will see what I mean. It’s something totally new, and something she may not have experienced before.

14: French Kiss: According to some women, many of their past dates/boyfriends didn’t know how to properly French kiss. Never mind the kissing. French kissing is not supposed to be sloppy, done fast or putting your whole tongue in her mouth. It should give that person a feeling of ecstasy and excitement.

Women, over men love to French kiss, so be prepared to do it properly.

  • Start off by giving her all the other kinds of kisses just discussed before doing the French kiss. Don’t jump right into it. Move slowly to it.
  • Gently slide your tongue across her upper lip. She should take the hint and open her mouth. Now gently slide just the tip of your tongue into her mouth. Just the tip of your tongue should pass beyond her teeth, and that’s it! She should meet you halfway. From there you will begin this kiss.
  • Use your tongue to explore her mouth, as she does the same to you. Move your tongue along her teeth, wrestle with her tongue, twist yours around hers and gently suck on her tongue.
  • Don’t let it be just about French kissing. Add a variety of different kinds of kisses also. To give more pleasure, suck on a mouthful of candy mints before you start kissing her. Give her that taste to enhance the kissing. Mmmm, a candy flavored mouth! But, make sure she doesn’t mind the taste of mint, or any candy you will be using. Know this beforehand.
  • And finally, a lot of women have commented on how guys tend to think that this kind of kissing means she is ready for sex. So, he starts to grope her and tries to undress her. You should never, never do this. This is where the communication breaks down. She wants to kiss for a while and he wants to...well, you know. Keep in mind that many women love to kiss and hug, and that’s it. She may not even want to go that far.

Don’t be afraid to talk a little while kissing her. Tell her how good she tastes and how good she feels in your arms. If she thinks you are funny, by all means joke around with her at the same time. But don’t joke too much! Brush her hair with your fingers, trace her ear with your fingertips and run them lightly across her cheeks every once in a while. Cup her face in your hands while you are kissing her. Caress the back of her neck and stroke her arms and hands.

Touch her, touch her and touch her some more. This can never be said enough! A kiss doesn’t have to be perfect. It’s all on how you look into her eyes and how you use your hands. Read Passionate Kiss again.

Remember, kissing a woman the right way makes you a good lover in her eyes, so do it right!

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Perry Rose is a syndicated freelance writer for singles on sex, dating and relationships. He is also the author of, All About Men: Another Damn Book For Women About Men. & Women and Sex And Dating, For The Single Man published by Intimacy Books. From first getting dates from complete strangers, to finding that right person to be with, Intimacy Books has interviewed single men and women on what they like and want from one another. The findings were published in Women, Sex and Dating, for the Single Man. Their site is

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