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A Woman’s G-Spot…Her Most Sexual
Hot Spot!
Knowing where her G-spot is and how to properly
stimulate her with it is something most men
don’t know. Even a lot of women don’t
know where it’s at, or for that matter they
don’t even know what it really is. Once you
master it, she will come to you more often, instead
of you going to her. She will be surprised by the
most intensifying feeling she has ever experienced.
And, you will be the first guy to give her that!
Here is yet another way to be the best lover she
has ever had.
The best way to find this mystery hot spot is
for her to lay on her belly, her legs apart, with
her hips slightly upward. Prop pillows under her
hips. Insert two fingers in her vagina, palm down
and start exploring the front, top wall of her
vagina. Ask her to guide you by telling you what
feels good. If she was lying on her back, your palm
should be faced up, exploring the topside of her
vagina. When properly stimulated, it should swell
and feel like a small, rigid lump. It feels
completely different from the rest of the
surrounding tissue. It has ridges, like the roof of
our mouth. Once you have found it, use a firm
pressure and move your fingers in a come hither
movement. It’s not like the clit, where you
have to be gentle and have a soft touch. She will
tell you how much pressure she likes.
Many women like it when you tap on it.
Many women have commented that they have a
feeling of having to urinate when their G-spot is
being stimulated. That’s when you know you
found it! If she is new to this feeling, let her
know that it will subside overtime. She will then
no longer have to go to the bathroom every time you
touch it.
It’s very hard to get to her G-spot while
in the missionary position, unless your penis
curves upward. The best positions are the spoon or
with her on top. She can better position herself
for your penis to hit that spot if she is on top.
The point is to get into a position so your penis
can best hit that area. You can also try the rear
entry position. This seems to do it for a lot of
women.
There are two other methods that are worth
trying that will double the pleasure for her. 1.)
Use a curved vibrator. Having something vibrate and
rubbing up against her G-spot will open up new
doors of excitement for her. 2.) And, lick her clit
at the same time. You can stimulate her two most
sensitive spots on her entire body.
I have heard from some sex therapists that the
G-spot can still be stimulated while the man is in
the missionary position. While thrusting, he pushes
down firmly on her stomach, rolling his hand
around, just below her belly button. This,
supposedly, stimulates the G-spot. I don’t see
how this is possible, since it isn’t being
touched. Anyway, it’s something to experiment
with. Who knows, maybe there is something to
it.
Something similar to this is when she is sitting
on top of you. Ask her to move her hips around in a
circular motion, and then with the heel of your
open hand (below the palm) or your fist, press on
the area that is a few inches above her
clitoris.
This isn’t full proof, of course, but by
doing this, the head of your penis should make
direct contact with her G-spot.
This isn’t a point of extreme pleasure for
many (not all) women, but some women have a very
mild sensitivity when their G-spot was being
massaged, while others went absolutely wild over
the feeling. So, this isn’t a guaranteed hot
spot. Nevertheless, women love it when you at least
try to satisfy them. That impresses and makes them
feel good. It shows that you care, so you win
either way!
See Perry's other weekly columns
on Dating
or Relationships.
Perry
Rose is a syndicated freelance writer for singles
on sex, dating and relationships. He is also the
author of, All About Men: Another Damn Book For
Women About Men. & Women and Sex And
Dating, For The Single Man published by
Intimacy Books. From first getting dates from
complete strangers, to finding that right person to
be with, Intimacy Books has interviewed single men
and women on what they like and want from one
another. The findings were published in Women,
Sex and Dating, for the Single Man. Their site
is bettersexbetterdating.com
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