Being a loser in the romance
Q from a Male, junior at from Drexel wants to
I would like to have a girlfriend, someone to
be in love with, but I seem to be a loser in the
romance department. Any tips?
Dr. Carons Response: Yes, I have a
great tip: In order to find someone to love, you
need to find someone you like. Think about what it
says: start slow; take small steps. Rather than
thinking you are a loser, I suspect you just have
not found the right person yet. No one can expect
to meet someone and automatically have a dynamic
love relationship; it takes time. Begin by finding
someone you like.
© 2009, Sandra L.
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It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the
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American teens have the worst of all
worlds...Our children are bombarded and confronted
with sexual messages, sexual exploitation, and all
manner of sexual criticism. But our society is by
and large sexually illiterate. Faye Westheimer
Dr. Sandra L.
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