"ALMOST" Perfect Thing To Say To Her To Get A Date
Without Feeling Uncomfortable If She Says
Benefits Of Dating Older
Having A Wingwoman Really
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This BEFORE You Head Out For Your
You Want To Hang Out Over At
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Dates Should Be More Than Just Light And
Do You Know If You Want Her For Her, Not Because
You Cant Have
To Get Women To Call
Blaming Women For Their Dating
Who Think They Are Too Short. To Date The Kind Of
Women They Want
Whats The Perfect Date For
So Many Singles Move On So Fast After Dating For
Only A Month Or
Reveal Why They Havent Gone Out On A Second
Date With Men
Why So Many Singles
Move On So Fast After Dating For Only A Month Or
Have you ever noticed that so many singles move
on after dating for only a month or two? It was all
hot and heavy in the beginning, and then over time
it slowly got colder, and then colder, and then
..until finally, one or both of them
moves on to someone else.
There are three reasons why they do:
1.) Too many singles settle for a person because
they dont like being alone.
2.) They are tired of dating, so they will just
3.) And the biggest reason, they dont ask
one another enough compatibility questions during
that first date. They have fun with one another, so
they think that is enough. But what happens after
the newness wears off?
Yup, one or both want
to move on after they find out that he/she really
wasnt the one after all.
Any of these sound familiar?
First Dates Should Be
More Than Just Light And Fun
Many singles seem to think that first dates
should be light and fun. No pressure, no twenty
questions, just have fun and keep things light. In
fact, too many guys are afraid to ask too many
questions to get to know her because they think it
should be kept light and fun. Big mistake!
You are dating because you are looking for that
right woman, right? If you keep the first dates
just light and fun, with very few compatibility
questions asked, you may not know enough to
determine if she is worth a second date or not, so
you land up going on that second date. And then,
how many times did you get a totally different
opinion of her on that second date, or third date?
You could have saved al that time and money if you
had only asked her enough questions, and, paid more
attention to any warning signs she may give
First dates can be light and fun, but they are
also supposed to be for knowing if two people are
compatible enough for future dates, too. You can
mix the two together.
And dont be afraid to ask those questions.
Hey, this is your time and money, you know, and if
she cant understand that a couple can do both
on a first date, is she really the one for you?
Dont you want a smart and a mature woman?
Heres another thing to think about: What
if you two fall for one another on that fun-filled
date because you two are physically attracted to
one another while at the same time having laughs,
BUT, you two really arent compatible enough
for future dates?
It happens all the time. Thats one of the
reasons why so many couples get tired of one
another within the first few weeks of dating. They
dont ask one another enough compatibility
Think about it!
The Benefits Of Dating
If you are a young guy in his twenties who is
tired of girls who play games and / or they are
always partying, you may find an older woman much
more appealing to you.
Its amazing, but so many young guys
dont even think to look for an older
Here are the benefits of being with an older
woman, keeping in mind that not all older women
fall into this group, obviously:
1.) The odds are that she is through with
2.) Shes better at managing her money.
After so many years, many of us wise up to
carefully watching our money closer than we did
when we were younger.
3.) Shes a better lover.
4.) Shes more mature mentally.
5.) She doesnt play games.
6.) Shes through the phase of, I
want to concentrate on my career.
7.) Shes more intelligent, and she can
make a faster and wiser decision on things.
Sounds pretty good, huh? Now, if you can meet a
fit woman who is in her late thirties or early
forties, or late forties, even, your dating could
be less hectic.
Hey, think about it!
Does Having A
Wingwoman Really Work?
"Wingman" is a term fighter pilots use. It refers
to a pilot flying protectively behind his squadron
leader. Then, a couple of years ago, some guy used
the term for buddies getting together to meet
women. And like a feather floating through the air,
the term floated from one guy to the next, across
In the dating world, a wingman is a man who will
back his buddy up when his buddy is trying to meet
and talk to women. He'd pump up his buddy if he
started to get cold feet. He'd give his buddy ideas
on how to approach that cute girl sitting at the
corner table. He's typically a guy who has no
problems meeting women at nightclubs and bars.
He'll get a conversation going with a woman, and
then ask her if she has any friends with her that
his friend can meet. They all get together, and,
voila, an intimate little group has been
Of course men have been doing this for one
another for, God knows how many years, but the term
wingman is recent. And just like one guy helping
another, many men have female friends who they can
also ask for help. This too has been going on for
years and years. In steps the term,
One man, by the name of Shane Forbes, decided to
take advantage of it by turning it into a service
for men who need help. Forbes said he realized he
had more success with women in clubs when he was
with female friends, so, in December of 2004,
Forbes started wingwomen.com. At the time of this
writing, he has twelve women working for him. The
cost to hire a woman is $50 an hour, and of that
she gets up to $30 to accompany single men to help
them chat it up with other women.
In late November or early October, Forbes told a
reporter from The New York Times that men have a
around a 65% success rate for getting a phone
65%! Forbes shouldn't have said that. Even a man
who is shy around women can do just as good. In
fact, if he is looking for a relationship, it
doesn't matter if his success rate is far below
that, because all he needs is one phone number.
Amna Shamim is not your average woman, she's a
wing woman. Her job is to introduce eligible New
York City bachelors to single women.
Amna Shamim: "A woman approaching a woman is
different than a guy approaching a woman, or a
woman approaching a guy, because we have sisterhood
bonds. If I came up to you and I was like, 'Oh, my
God, I really love your shoes.' We would start
talking about your shoes. And then in comes my male
friend. And you're already in a good mood, we've
already established a bond. And that's extended to
If you don't want to date a bunch of women
because you don't have the money for it and/or
you're looking for a relationship, all you need is
one phone number. At the time of this writing,
Forbes said that his clients have a 65% success
rate. Don't you think that you can get the same
success rate? Even if it was only 40%, you'll still
have a number that night.
Do you really need to pay $50 bucks an hour for
Here's one thing you need to keep in mind:
There's a strong possibility that the longer this
wingwoman is out there conversing with women,
trying to break the ice so she can get the man and
the woman to meet, the more money she makes for
Forbes and herself, so in all likely hood, she'll
be taking her time.
But, if you are shy, and you fumble your feet
around women, you don't know how to hold a
conversation, and you don't know how to approach
them, this service, could, be right for you.
This service is just for the EXTREME
The, ALMOST, Perfect Thing
To Say To Her To Get A Date Without Feeling
Uncomfortable If She Says No.
Shes the girl in your class. Shes the
cashier at the store you go to every week.
Shes the coworker
. Now, what in the
hell can you say to her to get a date, without
being put in a really awkward situation if she says
no to you? I mean, you have to see her
Some guys dont care, but if it makes you
feel awkward because you have to see her again, you
need to come up with a line that is almost
Here is one of several things you can say, and
yes, this is almost perfect:
You (after talking with her for a bit): I was
going to have lunch over at X place sometime this
week, maybe tomorrow, and I thought maybe you'd
like to come along. (Or replace it with a
Her: Hmmm, that sounds good.
You (Give her a big smile. Remember, women love
it when a guy smiles): Ok, well, would you like to
meet there, say, tomorrow, or can I pick you
If you can picture yourself doing this, you will
notice that you will be coming across as JUST a guy
who was going out to lunch or to the movie anyway,
and you thought that maybe she would like to come
along. You eased her into the idea of it. Its
better than the typical, Do you want to go
out with me?
When its at the spur of the moment
doesnt this sound much better than: Do
you want to go out? These are more
flattering, and it eases her into the idea of
accepting a date so quickly from a complete
stranger or from someone she doesnt know or
whom she sees occasionally.
How Do You Know If
You Want Her For Her, Not Because You Cant
Most people are like a little child wanting a toy.
The more mommy says no, the more that child will
Right? And when it comes to dating
women, the more she denies you, the more you want
her. Well, not all of us are like that, but a
surprising larger number of guys are. They simply
cant let her go. There is just something
about her that he has to have.
Perhaps you are a little like this?
Heres a little technique you can try, to
see if you really do want her for a relationship,
or your brain slid down to your dick again:
Yup, you guessed what I am about to say: After
you have had sex with one of your dates, you
masturbated or if you arent in one of those
horny moods that has you jumping on anything that
moves, sit down and think about this woman you are
Are your thoughts and
feelings for her as strong as they were before?
Really think about it. If they arent, well,
you pretty much got your answer.
Many, many guys, when thinking with their John
Henrys, think about being in a relationship, but
once they have sex with their date, or after they
masturbate, they no longer think about being with a
Ah yes, the power of hormones!
Now, if you still want to be with her, you have
to know if she is indeed the right one for you,
never mind trying to get a date with her. That will
come later. Whats the sense of having all
these thoughts about her if she could be a
mans worst nightmare? Once you start thinking
with your brain (you know, the one between your
ears?), instead of your little buddy, youll
have much better luck with women.
Perfect Date For Women?
Perfect date??? Why do some of you guys
feel that you have to have this long,
perfect, expensive date in order to
show her that you are the one for her? Did you know
that none of that matters if you arent
physically attracted to her, or you cant even
hold a good conversation with her? All that money
and energy will just go down the toilet!
So, what do women think is the perfect date for
them? Its probably not at all what you think.
Here are their answers, and pay attention!:
1. Be a great conversationalist (If you
dont know how, read chapter three of Women,
Sex And Dating, For The Single Man. Click on the
2. Ask her questions to get to know her. You
dont have to make it like an interview,
After all, how would you feel if she asked you
questions to get to know you? How would you feel if
she was interested in the things you are interested
in? Well, there you go.
Theres an old saying, If you want to
be interesting, be interested in them.
3. Make sure the food is good. Choose a
restaurant you know has good food.
4. Be a gentleman. Hold the door for her, ask
her how her meal and wine is
5. Dont talk about sex, IN ANY WAY!! That
was their number one complaint against you clods. I
mean, come on, guys!
Thats basically it. Pretty simple,
It isnt about the atmosphere of he place.
It isnt about how expensive the date is. It
isnt about candles or a nice centerpiece.
If she is a nice, down to earth girl, THAT is a
perfect date for her. After all wouldnt it be
Now, lets just hope she is physically
attracted to you!
Women Reveal Why They
Havent Gone Out On A Second Date With Men
One of a single mans most frustrating things
when dating is getting a second date. Do you also
have that same problem? After that first date, you
think it went just fine. You thought the
conversation was interesting and flowing, you
dressed nice, you acted like a complete
yet for some reason you cant
get a second date!
Wouldnt it be nice if you could read your
dates thoughts during the date? Women
arent the only ones having problems getting a
second date, or their date not calling when the say
they will. Men have the same problems. Well, for
now you are going to have to settle for the next
The following are womens top ten reasons
on why they dont go out with the same guy
again (Learn from them!):
First Reason: Poorly dressed. Many men
think they look okay, when in fact women have said
that their dates had no style at all, or they
didnt put forth the effort. Of course this
isnt a reason not to go on a second date with
him, but if it is combined with other things, it
can hurt him. Read the section on clothes, in
chapter two again.
Second Reason: He was too sexist? Many
women flat out refused to even return his phone
call for a second date because he asked her sex
questions. Some men are complete dead heads that
they dont get it. Many women wont show
Third Reason: Bad hygiene. Again, men
think they dont have bad breath, or they
think they can get away with wearing a shirt they
wore for a few hours yesterday.
Fourth Reason: A Boring conversation. A
dull conversation, with few questions asked to her
has ended many dates in its tracks.
Fifth Reason: She wasnt attracted
to his looks as much as she first thought. We all
know that there has to be some attraction between
two people in order for it to work. Many single
people, men and women have gone out on a date with
someone who they thought was cute only later they
changed their mind. Have you ever seen a woman for
that first time and thought she was pretty, but
later on you see her a second time and you no
longer thought that? Its strange how that
happens, but nevertheless it does. If this has ever
happened to you, it isnt being shallow,
because there has to be some physical attraction
there. Put yourself in her shoes.
Sixth Reason: They were going out on
other dates, and she chose the other guy. OUCH!
Seventh Reason: She went out on the date
because she was bored. Again, OUCH! Or, she
didnt want to say no, thinking she would hurt
his feelings. This is the bad side to asking out
overly-nice women. It can be very confusing!
Eighth Reason: She wants to get married,
but didnt think he would be a compatible
husband. Boyfriend, yes, husband, no. This has
happened many, many times. She doesnt want to
waste her or his time, because she is looking for a
husband. This also applies to a live-in
relationship. If you were looking for a wife, and
your date wasnt quite what you were looking
for, would you waste your or her time?
Nineth Reason: The chemistry wasnt
there. She thought he was nice looking, and the
conversation was nice, but that was all there was.
"Nothing clicked." Sometimes that happens. She
would go out on a second date, but it would be as
just friends, and she thought that he wanted more.
She didnt want to bother with it.
Tenth Reason: And, she is materialistic.
She thought he was very well off only to later find
out that he didnt have as much as he let on.
Yes, some women admitted this.
Men Blaming Women
For Their Dating Problems
On questions like: How to talk to women, what to
say to them, how to approach them, should you bring
a flower on that first date...some men think that
the advice should come from the men, After all,
they say, they are the ones who are doing it; that
you should ask the men who have success with women.
And, they say, "women don't know what they want.
They are too indecisive."
On the surface this does seem to make sense.
There are indeed a lot of women who really
dont know what they want. But, if one was to
look at this closely, you may find another point of
view. Let's look at this more closely, and think
When you compare the sexes, do you think that
there are probably just as many men who are the
because they think with their
hormones? One moment he wants this particular
woman, the next he changes his mind to another type
of woman. Are some men indecisive like this?
Also, could it be that it isnt that women
dont know what they want, its that many
men cant understand them; there is this
misunderstanding between the sexes, which in turn
makes it seem like they dont know what they
Many women say they like "nice guys," but they
don't date them. They date jerks. This is a classic
misunderstanding between the sexes. She wants to be
with that nice guy. It's just that he is TOO nice.
He always tries to please her. He acts like a
doormat. While, on the other hand, the "jerk"
doesn't act like that. Many women will stay in a
relationship, if you want to call it that, because
they are hoping that they can get rid of that part
in him that they don't like. They will try to
change him. They want a man to act like a man, but
at the same time...be a nice man.
"I Will Always Pay Attention To MEN'S BEHAVIOR
That Attracts Women."
We read this recently from a gentleman who
firmly believes a man should get dating advice from
another man who can get the women. If you want to
know what words to use to best get that date with a
stranger, listen to a guy who has already done it.
Men shouldn't listen to women because women don't
ask other women out, so how would they know what
works and what doesn't?
Does this also seem to make sense? Well, let's
take another look at this one also.
It's true that one should listen to the man who
knows how to attract the women, and get dates, but,
what should be looked more closely is what kind of
women is he able to get dates with? If he usually
dates easy women, who have no character to them,
what does that tell you? If you are looking for a
serious relationship with that, RIGHT woman, should
you listen to him?
Here's another thing to think about. Men who say
that you shouldn't ask women on how to ask them out
and the best way to approach them is because they
don't ask out other women. Well that one really
doesn't make sense. No, they don't ask each other
out, BUT, they do get approached by men! What if
you asked your female friend if such and such line
would work to best break the ice with her. She can
tell you if it would work with her. After all, you
aren't asking the man out!
Here's another thing to think about.
How would you feel if your female friend, or a
coworker asked you for dating advice on how to get
a guy to ask her out? She asked you what your
favorite perfume is, how you would feel if a woman
asked you for a date, etc., etc. Well, why should
she ask you? Shouldn't she ask a woman?
You see, once you better understand women, and
take another look at the bottom line to all of
this, you will realize that they do indeed know
what they want (Well, most women, that is. There
are many screwy ones out there), and that it is
better to listen to women on the best way to get
dates with them. You just have to understand their
thinking better, just like they need to better
understand our thinking also.
Men Who Think They Are
Too Short. To Date The Kind Of Women They Want
Are you a short guy who is self conscious about
your height? Do you think it is affecting your
dating lifestyle? Well, did you know that there are
a lot of women who could care less about your
height? Its true.
If you havent met them yet, it's probably
because you gave up too fast. You havent
asked enough women out so you can get to her yet.
Yes, most women want to be with a guy who is at
least 5 8," but you would be surprised by the
number of women who dont care if you are
shorter than that.
You dont believe us?
Here are two
web sites that just may change your mind:
col323.com & shortsupport.org. These two sites
will open your eyes, and make you feel better about
At col323.com you will read stories from women
who married men much shorter than them. It
didnt matter to a lot of these women.
Its a great site to visit! At
shortsupport.org is a list of famous people who are
/ were much shorter than you think. For example:
Elton John is 5 3.5." We found this very hard
to believe, until we found out for myself. He must
Alan Ladd was 5 4." He was one of the
biggest actors during his time. He too must have
worn lifts. The same with Audie Murphy (war hero
and actor), who stood in at 5' 5". The studios
didnt care about their height, obviously,
because of their attitude, character and the way
they carried themselves. Remember that!
And how about Michael J. Fox? He stands in at
5 4." You dont think the studios could
have gotten taller actors for the roles he played
in? He too got them because of the way he carried
himself, and also because of his personality.
Here are a few more:
Rod Stewart: 5 5."
Dudley Moore: 5' 2.5."
Robert Blake: 5' 4."
Scott Hamilton: 5' 3.5.''
Phil Collins: 5' 5."
The reason why these famous people seem taller
is because of their attitude about themselves.
Speaking of which, did you know that Jimmy Hoffa
was only 5 5"? And this guy ran a union for
truck drivers! Steve McQueen and Paul Newman stood
in at 59," and even though that really
isnt a short stature, nevertheless it is only
a couple of inches shy from being short. They look
taller in some of their movies because they
obviously wore lifts.
And speaking of lifts
DONT USE THEM!!
They have to come off eventually anyway, right? Why
not have women see you for who you are? Its
just like wearing a wig. It has to come off
eventually. She may very well be unpleasantly
surprised. How would you like it if its done
to you? Show your true self up front.
Yes, many women will reject you because of your
height, but not all will. Whenever you go out, you
will see short men with very cute women who are
taller. If that doesnt convince you that
there are many women who dont care, you have
a problem, and its not your height!
Many women surveyed on this subject have said
that they don't mind having a short mate, as long
as they were the same height. So, find a woman who
is your height! And then let your personality and
character take care of the rest.
It's all up here (between the ears)!
Do This BEFORE You Head
Out For Your Date
If you're looking for a serious relationship where
someday you hope to get married, and, perhaps, have
children, you want that woman to be the sweetest,
nicest woman you have ever met, right? You want her
to be hardworking. You want her to be good with
money. You want her to be smart....but, how often
do you go into the date actually using your brain
to see if she is indeed the one for you?
Its kind of hard to think when your penis
sucks out all the blood from your brain, isnt
How can you find her if your hormones are
tackling you and holding you down until the date is
over? How will you be able to look out for any red
flags she may be waving that tells you she is
nothing but a pain in the ass? After all, we are
talking about your valuable time, and, your money
While we are on this subject of looking out for
any warning signs, you NEED to write out a list of
red flags your past dates waved in front of you
that you missed because your hormones were beating
the hell out of your lifeless brain, so you
couldnt see them until much later.
Write everything down on paper. What things did
she do or didn't do that would have you thinking
she wouldn't be worth a relationship?
Did you get more attention from your dog than
Did she take her cell phone with her?
she answer it?!
Was the conversation with her so boring that it
put the other customers within hearing range
If the answer is yes to the above, you'll
realize that she isn't worth a second date. But, if
your penis is doing the thinking that night
Now, here's something you should be doing,
BEFORE you head out to the date. It will keep you
from thinking with your penis, which in turn you'll
be able to see her more clearly:
Masturbate at least twice while thinking about
her just before meeting her.
Ok, ok, stop rolling the eyes. Think about it.
What were your thoughts on when you were dating
that last woman you were attracted to? Was it on
anything about her inner beauty? And how many times
did you go on a second date with a woman because
she was so pretty, and later on you got burned? You
totally missed the warning signs she gave out.
Think back to all those dates where you could
have saved all that time and money if you had only
left your hormones at home so your brain had a
Are you thinking?
And while youre sitting there using your
pea brain, think of all the times you were at home
alone, thinking about that really cute cashier at
the grocery store you'd love to date. Are you
thinking? Now, think about how you then felt after
you masturbated while thinking about her. Was your
enthusiasm for her as strong as it was before? How
about after you masturbated a second time within
that same hour?
All of this sounds pretty silly, doesnt
it? But don't take this for granted! It's what you
need to do if your hormones have more pull power
than your brain. The date should be about what she
would be like as a girlfriend or wife, rather than
you having sex with her.
What qualities do you want her to have? Write
them down, and stick to that list! If you think
more like this, you'll be able to find that sweet
girl, and then the sex will follow.
Do You Want To Hang
Out Over At
.? Should You Say This To
In some situations, many guys seem to think that
you shouldnt come right out and ask her out
on a date. College guys especially think this. They
think that a lot of college girls are turned off by
Do you want to go out sometime?
Its the whole date thing. Oh my!
So these guys will use the words hang
out, and then, over time, hopefully she will
be attracted to him enough for a date.
Really? I never knew this. Is this really true?
Well, there is one thing that IS true, you using
the words, Do you want to hang out over
can very well make it harder for
Think about it
how would you feel if she
used those words on you? What would you be
Exactly! The guessing games begin. After awhile,
she may be thinking, Does he like me in that
way? Why doesnt he ask me out on
a date? On top of that, youll be
wondering and guessing on when, or IF to ask her
out on a date.
Talk about a big headache.
Or, what if she isnt attracted to you in
that way? You wasted all that time with her.
Now, of course, hanging out with her can get her
to like you better over time, but what if she
simply isnt attracted to you in that way? And
if she is, she will go out with you if you ask her
Common sense, fellas!
How To Get Women To Call
For many men it's easy for them to simply ask for a
woman's phone number, or, to get her to call them.
But can you? And, because of safety reasons, some
women won't give out their number.
You need the odds in your favor when asking for
her number, or, at the very least, getting her to
call you. Here's a simple one-line sentence you can
say to any woman you see on a regular basis, like
the bank teller or cashier:
"If you ever feel like talking, call me." Then
hand her your phone number, give her a big friendly
and warm smile, and then leave.
Now of course you just can't blurt it out, or
say, "Hi. If you ever feel like talking, call me."
It would sound pretty odd. Talk to her for about a
minute or so beforehand.
This works even better if you think something is
bothering her, or she looks tired.
For example: You say, "You look tired." "I am."
she says. Just as you are about to leave, you then
say, "I know this is just out of the blue, but if
you ever feel like talking, call me." Then hand her
your phone number.
It's that simple.
Of course this works with women you've seen for
the first time, also.
Close your eyes and imagine yourself at, say,
the grocery store, and there is a cashier you've
never seen before. Your putting your food on the
belt, she's ringing it up, you say hi to her, she
says hi back, then you stand there while she
finishes ringing you up. You say a few things to
her, like, "I haven't seen you before. Is this your
shift?" Or, "Long day?" Think of things to say to
her. Then, after she hands you your receipt, you
say, "I know this is just out of the blue, but if
you ever feel like talking, call me."
Perhaps you think this may sound kind of weird?
Well, no, it won't. Switch roles with her. How
would you feel if she said that to you? Think about
The odds are more in your favor because you are
simply letting her know that if she ever feels like
talking, she can call you. It's not a date. No
pressure. It's just a simple conversation over the
phone. It's also something totally different to
what she normally hears from men.
She knows what you are getting at anyway, but
you are being more friendlier this way, which will
improve your odds in talking to her over the phone,
and then, getting that date!
Women think more highly of a man who is
quick/imaginative on his feet when asking women
out, and, he has a sense of humor, so this next
line will work even better:
"Do you like to talk on the phone?" More than
likely she will say yes. When she does, hand her
your number and say, "Well, good. ... Here's my
number. Call me and let's talk."
Don't forget that big, friendly, warm smile!
Let's hope she has a sense of humor, and that
she likes to talk on the phone!
Of course some women won't call you, or, for
that matter even take your number. She'll act like
a little girl: "Oh, no! Get it away from me!" kind
of an attitude. She'll get all uncomfortable. Some
women overreact like this. They're ridiculous.
Ignore them and move on to the next woman. Dumb
women like that aren't worth your time anyway.
Try this technique with as many women as you
can. You'll find that they are some of the best
things to say to women in getting them to call you
and/or getting their phone numbers.
Does She Have A
As long as I have been a syndicated writer for
singles on dating, for the life of me I cannot
understand why so many men simply cant ask a
woman, Do you have a boyfriend?
Its as if he will be perceived as weak or
something. Do you think it is? I got a little bit
of news for you
IT ISNT! You think that,
not the women. Its an assumption thats
Your buddy may say, Well, just ask her
out. Why do you even have to ask her if she has
I already know what youre thinking:
Well, then I will feel really awkward if she
does have one.
Ok, if you cant seem to get over this
little hump, you can try interjecting a question
into the conversation, like, What does your
boyfriend think about that? or, Is your
boyfriend here? I dont want to get you into
trouble? and then give her a big smile.
Assume she has a boyfriend, and interject such
She may ask, What makes you think I have
one? Come back with something along this
line, Well, you are so easy to talk with, and
you seem really nice, so I just naturally assumed.
You mean you dont have
Or, you can get a pair of balls and simply ask
her, Are you single?
love to get to know you better, maybe over lunch
sometime this week???
It, WILL NOT, make you look weak! Only
little boys think that, and women do
not like little boys! I mean, think about it, how
does this question make you look weak, or whatever
it is that you are thinking right now?
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Rose is a syndicated freelance writer for singles
on sex, dating and relationships. He is also the
author of, All About Men: Another Damn Book For
Women About Men. & Women and Sex And
Dating, For The Single Man published by
Intimacy Books. From first getting dates from
complete strangers, to finding that right person to
be with, Intimacy Books has interviewed single men
and women on what they like and want from one
another. The findings were published in Women,
Sex and Dating, for the Single Man. Their site
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