Do You Fall In Love With The Wrong Women Too Easily?

Do you land up falling in love with her after you have had sex with her? Well, you’re not the only one. A LOT of guys do. And what usually happens after, what, six months? Yup, she lands up not being the one for you after all. Or, she has decided that you aren’t for her. Ouch! And how long does it take for you to fall out of love with her? Or, are you still in love with the last one? It’s not a good feeling. I know.

There’s a simple technique that will work wonders for you, which has worked for who knows how many men before you. Though you are probably going to hate it. Are you ready? … Don’t have sex with her until you know more about her.

Hey, think about it. You NEED to know more about this woman if you do have a tendency to fall in love after sleeping with her. Read this chapter again. No, STUDY this chapter, and be more on solid ground to see if the two of you are right for one another. And yes, I know, who knows if two people are right for one another. There are couples breaking up after years together, but you should at least know that the both of you are compatible enough for a relationship where there is hope.

Too many couples get together for the dumbest of reasons.

1.) She’s lonely, and she is tired of dating, so she will settle with him.

2.) He’s lonely, and he is tired of dating, so he will settle for her.

3.) The sex was good for him, so she’s the one.

4.) They had fun together those first couple of dates, but their incompatibility differences bogs them down over time. They stay together because of the fun they had on those dates, hoping that it will come back somehow.

5.) They are with one another mainly because they like each other’s looks.

Once you get your act together, you will find that you will be able to better control this heart on your sleeve.

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Perry Rose is a syndicated freelance writer for singles on sex, dating and relationships. He is also the author of, All About Men: Another Damn Book For Women About Men. & Women and Sex And Dating, For The Single Man published by Intimacy Books. From first getting dates from complete strangers, to finding that right person to be with, Intimacy Books has interviewed single men and women on what they like and want from one another. The findings were published in Women, Sex and Dating, for the Single Man. Their site is

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