Multicultural

Menstuff® has compiled information, books and resources on the multicultural issue. Multicultural isn't black and white. It includes evereyone regardless of their race, color, national origin, age, religion, sex, orientation, ability, familial status or political affiliatoin.

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Newsbytes - Multicultural issues in the news

An E-Mail From A Daughter To Her Parents - Be careful of what you ask for
A black man talks to a white man
Predictions for this Fall's NFL Season
Teaching Tolerance to Children 7 to 10
Call Me Negro, Black or Afrian-American?
The Real Story Behind the Ray Lewis Story
A Tossed Salad
Crayola Denigrates Native Americans
Don't Laugh at Me
Hate Crimes
The Kettle
N-word for the White Guy YouTube
Racism
Newsbytes

Books
Videos (Circle of Recovery, Color of Fear, Walking Each Other Home & Stolen Ground)
Related Issues: Talking With Kids About Tough Issues
Periodicals
Resources

In honor of Black History Month
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A black man talks to a white man:

When I was born I was black,
When I grew up I was black,
When I'm sick I'm black,
When I go in the sun I'm black,
When I'm cold, I'm black,
When I'm scared, I'm black,
When I'm sick, I'm black,
When I die I'll still be black.

But you: When you're born you're pink,
When you grow up you're white,
When you're sick, you're green,
When you go in the sun you turn red,
When you're cold you turn blue,
When you're scared, you're yellow,
When you're bruised, you're purple,
and when you die you turn grey.
And you have the nerve to call me colored.

Be a link to erase racism.

An E-Mail From A Daughter To Her Parents - Be careful of what you ask for


Dear Mom and Dad,

You'll be happy to hear that I have finally left my black boyfriend. I know you both didn't approve of him because of his race and the fact that he is ten years older than me. I found, as you suggested, a nice white Canadian boy the same age, as I.

Attached is a recent photo of the two of us. He's looking forward to meeting you both.

Your Loving Daughter

Predictions for this Fall's NFL Football Season


The following is an update on the predictions of the 2008 Super Bowl XLII and the power houses in each conference. Each division is ranked as to how they are expected to finish the 2007 season. The Washington Redskins have an outside shot while the Kansas City Chiefs have a good possibility. Each division is expected to be won by one of these two top teams.

AFC East - New England Micks over Buffalo - Bohunks
AFC South - Indianapolis Klan over Jacksonville Peckerwoods
AFC North - Pittsburgh Pussies over the Cleveland Coons
AFC West - San Diego Beaners over Denver Sissies

NFC East - Dallas Sand Niggers over New York Spicks
NFC South - Tampa Bay Yids over New Orleans Gippos
NFC North - Green Bay Herring-chockers over the Minnesota Squareheads
NFC West - Seattle Chinks over the Arizona Pale Faces

Did you find any of these team names offensive? If so, were you immediately offended by the very first paragraph of this story? Particularly the thrid sentence where I mentioned the Washington Redskins and the Kansas City Chiefs? Well, hundreds of thousands of people are offended by those names. If your high school or college uses such racist names, speak out against it?  If you do, maybe the pro-football owners and particularly those in Kansas City and Washington, DC  aand pro-baseball owners in Atlanta (Braves) will start to honor, respect and really understand that Native Americans aren't mascots, they're people. Think about it! (Get a Free Bumper Sticker.) (For a prediction of the out-come for each division this year, click here.)

Teaching Tolerance to Children 7 to 10


Prejudice is learned. So is acceptance. Here are some tips for getting the issue of tolerance out on the table: (1) Hold many brief conversations instead of one long lecture. This will show your child that they can bring up the subject for discussion at any time. (2) Don't be wishy-washy. Children are far more likely to pay attention when you talk specifically and answer their questions directly. (3) Don't worry if you don't have all the answers. Lack of knowledge can provide a golden opportunity to go to the library or go on-line to find out more. (4) Don't tolerate prejudicial language or humor. (Editor: "Reply to All" when you receive prejudicial jokes via email and state the negative impact they have on you and ask not to receive them anymore.) (5) Use television and books as tools to explore prejudice and stereotyping. Parents Tips & Tricks

A Tossed Salad


Let me say up front, that I am by no means an expert or scholar on multiculturalism except that I live and am part of a country founded on freedom and diversity that hates difference. Understanding just how insidious the system is that benefits from racism, is quite complicated. And, as a white man, I'm taking a look at the part I play in this system. My liberal stance is being challeneged, and rightly so.

Though I have been involved in men's work since 1976 and did my first 'Un-learning Racism' workshop in 1979, it wasn't until seeing debute of the film, 'The Color of Fear", that I really got it. And I was in the film, but it didn't really hit me how deeply the racism from growing up and living in a basically all-white area with a nice liberal stance, had kept me from really seeing my part in keeping the system going. And how I have used the "Priviledge" of being white to keep me from feeling the pain and loneliness that isolation from our diverse culture has left me with. See this video or better yet, buy it and see it with friends! (If we have any show dates, they'll appear in "Calendar".)

Shortly after filming, I got the idea to replace my 'I Believe You Anita' bumper sticker with 'I Believe You Rodney'. As I was placing my order at the printers, fear rushed through my body. I got to thinking about the potential danger I might put myself or my car in by driving around that 'identified'. I really connected at that point with the priviledge I have being white and driving almost anywhere in safety and how by putting that bumper sticker on might be in a small way similar to being black and being watched driving through most communities and maybe being singled out in some.

I ended up getting those bumper stickers printed for any white-liberals out there who believe that the color of a persons skin doesn't matter in this culture, that we're all treated the same and we all have the same opportunity. Would you be willing to test your assumptions by putting an 'I Believe You Rodney' bumper sticker on your car for the next couple of months? (See "Merchandise" to begin the test.) We've looked for a long time at the "melting pot" theory that suggests we all become the same. I like the "tossed salad" concept better, myself. Think about it.

Crayola Denigrates Native Americans


Richard Gurin, Binney & Smith Inc, PO Box 431, Easton, PA 18044, 610.253.6271

I was very disturbed to see that the new 64 pack of Crayola’s I just purchased contains a color called "Indian Red". I’ve returned it to you and have thrown out the rest since I don’t want to expose children to what I believe to be a racist image.

Does it represent "Indians" from the Southwest, or the East or Eskimo. Actually, Indian’s are from India. Native American’s in this country are not nor do they call themselves "Indian". That, like the word "savage", were imposed terms given them by our government. Much like the government’s use of Hispanic, though the word "Indian" carries a lot more damaging history with it.

It may not be intentional, but surely your people with all their creativity can come up with a more suitable name for the color.

I am not Native American. And I am offended. I would be most interested in knowing where you stand on this situation and will report the progress on our website. Yours in continued growth.

Editor's Note: Our initial reply from their PR people was to defend it's use saying it was the name of a color in India. However, since that time they have announced that the name will be dropped from their line. It doesn't always take more than one person to get corporations thinking. Change can happen.

The Kettle

A black man talks to a white man:
When I was born I was black,
When I grew up I was black,
When I'm sick I'm black,
When I go in the sun I'm black,
When I die I'll be black.

But you: When you're born you're pink,
When you grow up you're white,
When you're sick, you're green,
When you go in the sun you turn red,
When you're cold you turn blue,
and when you die you turn purple.
And you have the nerve to call me colored.

Be a link to erase racism.

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Nothing will change until we demolish the we-they mentality. We are human and therefore all human concerns are ours. Sam Hamill



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