Tom Blake is an expert on dating after 50. He has appeared twice on the "Today Show" and has written more than 500 columns on dating and relationships. His "Single Again" column appears in The Orange County Register in southern California, is read worldwide and is often featured on msn.com. He is a professional speaker. He spoke at the national AARP convention in San Diego in 2002, and will speak at the AARP convention in Chicago this September. His book, Middle Aged and Dating Again, is a humorous account of his first year of dating after his third divorce. His new book, Finding Love After 50: How to begin, where to go, what to do, is hot off the press. To ask a question or receive Tom's free weekly column on middle-age dating and relationships by e-mail, click on www.findingloveafter50.com See Archives 2009, 2008, 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004, and 2003.

Adjusting to the shock of becoming single
Advising a loved one
Alzheimers. Follow up about dating
Anatomy of a scam
Anatomy of a scam: The downside of Internet dating
Another reason for not having sex with a man too soon
Are men 55-plus afraid of commitment?
Arriving in Italy
Ashamed of Internet dating?
Be careful at singles events
Being a freemale not so bad (in England)
Big, noisy family
Can I guarantee love?
Can single women find love on a cruise
Children, grandchildren (and great grandchildren)
Conflicted: Choosing between her man and her grandchildren
Dating around but not sleeping around
Dating a widower: Should Barb pull the plug?
Dating from a man's point of view
Dating new singles can be unpredictable
Dating while raising a great grandchild
Does she care about him?
Don't be fooled by fantasy love
Don't sweat the small stuff
Dreaming My Dreams
The elephant in the room
Email etiquette: Behind the doctor's mask
Empathy and finding love
Enjoying the domestic side of life--briefly
15 years of girlie stuff
Finding love when one has a medical condition
First-date etiquette; talkin' too much
The 14 G's of dating and living while growing older
Friends-with-benefits and widower dating
The futility of loving an image
Getting out and about
A gut-wrenching love Importance of communication among couples
He's broke; I'm not
How a widow of one year found love
How important is finding love in your life?
How new widower will spend New Year's Eve
Importance of healing before dating
Internet dating
Internet dishonesty, advice and being sized up as a steak dinner
Internet Love
Intimacy: Two women, two opposite problems
Is romance possible in Texas?
It's time to heal a myth?
It's unanimous: Judie should not lie about where she lives
Later-in-life marriage? Take time to think it through
Loneliness clouds judgment
Long distance relationships can work
Louise found love in Texas
Love after 50 and beyond (far beyond)
Love on the North Shore
Man 54 marries for first time
Man's divorce anger will fade in time
Marriage at mid-life and beyond?
Marriage no longer a slam-dunk decision
Married but feeling like a renter: Another "dating a widower" disaster
Married to an abuser. Should the ex-wife come to the new wife's rescue?
Mean man mistreats a sweet lady
Men respond to the age lying issue
Message for single women: Don't overlook the blue-collar guy
Musings from the male point of view
Never Married No More
A new way to meet singles
Older men get hurt too
Older women dating younger men: go for it
Old flames reunite
On being quoted in the newsletter
Open mouth, insert foot
Partially-married people joining dating pool?
Responses to man musings
A romance 30 years in the making
The "Rubber Band" theory in relationships-- Is it real?
The rush-to-decision generation
Seeking romance with Richard the lion-hearted
Sex Too Soon.
Should Judie lie about not owning her own home?
Should multiple marriages matter in a mate?
Should women lie about their age?
Single man in Texas
The six red flags of loving an image
64 years of a man's love
Some people are more careful about picking out drapes.
Soon-to-be-married teacher needs to protect her assets
Starting Over
Stepping Around Widowers
Sundance Film Festival
Tennis playing widow rediscovers sex
There are always excuses
Tough talk for a tough situation
Two widowers - two women - two problems
2,000 miles between them
A wasted month in the life of a cougar
What happens in Vegas doesn't stay in Vegas
What is Shirley to do?
When cheating isn't cheating - or is it?
Where single women meet men
Where to go to meet men?
Where to meet men without baggage
Why Boomer Dating is Difficult
Wife torn by husband's Alzheimer's and her loneliness
Woman Korean War Veteran finds love on the Internet
Women beware: con man is out of prison
Women protect your money
Women reveal their secrets on where to meet men

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