The Magic of Three Little Words
Saying I love you is the most beautiful
gift you can give to your partner. These words are
the most treasured a person can hear. You can say
it a million times, and your partner will still
want to hear it again, and again, and again.
The First Time
Does anyone know when the perfect time is to say
I love you for the first time?
Its hard to say if it should be said after a
week, month, or year after knowing your partner.
Logic doesnt seem to be a part of it.
Instead, this is one decision that is usually
dominated by pure emotion. You will know when the
time is right. Like a baby thats ready to be
born, theres no holding it back. If you are
at that point in your relationship and feel unsure
about doing it, just use these tips to help guide
- If there is a strong affection or warm
attachment (not just sexual), love is not far
- Choose a quiet moment so your partner can
- Be sober when you say it.
- Say it as you are either holding your
partners hands or stroking his or her
- Look your partner straight in the eye and
- Mean it when you say it.
- Dont waste any time once you realize
how you feel.
- Be sincere.
- Say it in a foreign language first if you
dont want her to understand you.
- This way you will be able to test it out and
see how you feel.
© 2007 ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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