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Bringing Romantic Fantasies to Life
One of the most enjoyable parts of having a
relationship is being able to fulfill your romantic
fantasies. You know, the one about being swept off
your feet by a knight in shining armor or rescuing
the damsel in distress?
Knights and damsels are a thing of the past, but
romantic fantasies still exist. A romantic fantasy
is something important to you that is missing in
your love life. It’s what you think about in
your quiet time. If only you had it, your life
would be more complete.
In this article, you will learn how your
romantic fantasies can come true by learning how to
make them happen. All dreams need work to become
realities. Whether you are in a relationship or
not, you can still formulate your plan of action to
make your romantic dreams come true.
Romantic fantasies are different for everyone.
Each fantasy takes on a life of its own with a
unique feeling, tone, and theme. Some people have
simple fantasies; other people’s fantasies are
very detailed. One thing that is common with all
romantic fantasies is the element of desiring
something that you don’t already have in your
life and that can only come through a romantic
partner.
Sharing Your Fantasy
Many times, both partners in a relationship have
fantasies that they would like to share with their
partners, but they don’t reveal them. Sharing
a fantasy can make you vulnerable. Fantasies also
can evoke strong emotions. For these reasons,
fantasies are usually kept private. To present your
secret thoughts to someone can take courage.
One of the biggest barriers to sharing a fantasy
with your partner is erroneous assumptions. No one
can read another person’s mind. Yet it’s
easy to come up with many reasons why you think
your partner would not want to live out a fantasy
with you.
Telling Your Partner What You Want
How do you tell your partner about your romantic
fantasies? It’s easy. All you have to do is be
clear about what you want and then tell your
partner. I know it sounds easier to do than it is,
but what do you have to lose? If you have someone
who loves you, that person may be more eager to
make you happy than you think.
The first step to telling your partner about
your romantic fantasy is to think about what you
want. Then write the fantasy down in one sentence.
Have your partner write his or her fantasy down,
too:
Do you see how easy that was? Now that you have
written it down, you should be clear about what you
want. The next step is to share the fantasy with
your partner. Go ahead, he won’t bite! I
promise!
© 2008, ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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Nancy Fagan is
the best-selling author of 'The Complete Idiot's
Guide to Romance' and 'Desirable Men: How to Find
Them' has appeared on several hundred radio and
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