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Why is Romance Important?
Q. I've never been a romantic kind of guy and I'm
tired of my girlfriend get angry with me because
I'm not. Is it possible to be romantic when I don't
see the value in it?
A: People ask me all the time why romance is
important. It’s important because it’s
the only way to show your partner you care. It is
not about the cost of a gift or the magnitude of a
gesture, but expressing your love to your partner
on a regular basis.
The secret to being romantic is two-fold. You
need to have both desire and opportunity. When you
have desire, you will create the opportunity for
romance. If you don’t, your relationship will
die.
Part of learning how to keep a relationship
happy is to learn to identify early warning signs
of trouble. This way, you and your partner can
repair the damage before the problem becomes
worse.
In romantic relationships, one of the first
signs of trouble is a decrease in romance. This
does not mean that once romance begins to wane,
your relationship is on the rocks. It simply is
gauge for you to keep your eye on. If you notice
definite cutbacks in romance, let it be a signal
that you need to add more romantic gestures to your
relationship. Increasing romance will create a
surge of positive energy in the relationship.
© 2007 ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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Nancy Fagan is
the best-selling author of 'The Complete Idiot's
Guide to Romance' and 'Desirable Men: How to Find
Them' has appeared on several hundred radio and
television shows including Ricki Lake, Men are from
Mars/Women are from Venus, ABC News, NBC News, CBS
News, The Berman & Berman Show, FOX News. She
has been featured in most major newspaper in the
United States and worldwide as well as regularly
mentioned in the nation's top magazines such as
Ladies' Home Journal ('Can this Marriage be
Saved?'), Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men's Health,
Bride's, Seventeen, Women's Day, Family Circle,
Women's Own, BBW, Complete Women and dozens of
others. To read more, visit www.ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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