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She Does Not Call Back
Q: What about women who do not return phone
calls? Is it best to play just as hard to get?
A: It depends on how old she is, how much
has transpired before you got her number and why
you called her. Let’s take one “depends
on” at a time.
Depends on Her Age
The non-caller is 28+, okay? One call is all she
gets. Strike one and you’re out! She’s an
adult. If she wants to play hard to get, let her
jerk off somebody else.
The non-caller is under 25. As stated in this
newsletter and in How To Date Young Women, giving
you her number is not necessarily a good thing. If
you were persistent in trying to get it, she gives
it just to get rid of you. Thus, when she does not
return your call, that’s means she was not
interested, or by persisting you ignored my primary
mandate and showed too much interest, way too soon,
which she translated as follows: “He wants me.
I’ve got him. I don’t have to take a
chance and go out with an older (very powerful)
guy. My ego is stroked. I’m happy and safe.
PLUS I have proof that I’m attractive to older
guys. I’m a real WOMAN.”
Depends on What has Transpired - Part
I
The way you want her to give you her number is
after, only after, enough has transpired for the
two of you to have semi-set up a pseudo date or a
lightweight date. You just need her number to make
the final communications and connections.
Depends on What has Transpired - Part
II
However, way before that, you are supposed to
have given her your interesting,
conversation-starting business card [ICSBC]
that has your home phone, business phone, and home
address on it. That makes you vulnerable. It gives
her time to drive by your place to check out your
neighborhood and possibly “accidentally bump
into you.” Doing this also means to her that
you have nothing to hide. You are being open and
honest. You are not married or living with someone
and trying to use her as she’s read about in
Cosmopolitan.
Depends on Why You Called Her
The call must be all business. As, in setting up
the time and place or changing the schedule. Any
other call scares her to the point of ending it
all. NEVER, EVER call just to chat! When in doubt,
re-read.
©2008 R. Don
Steele
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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