A String of Pearls Makes You Patient
Right near the top of Steel Balls Principles is:
Three pearls are mandatory at all times, even after
you have a girlfriend!
Pearl Defined: a woman one is not yet dating.
You are courting her. Showing her all the facets of
your diamond while increasing your desirability
using the many proven methods of the Steel Balls
Principles. She is just another pearl on your
string, so to speak. If you believe women do not do
this, you are sadly mistaken. Ask your sister!
Here is the information directly from How to
Date Young Women:
A String of Pearls Makes You Patient. Always
have a string to work on at least three young
pearls long. With only two, when you "fold 'em"
with the first, you'll only have one, that's the
same as having none.
The more of them you're working on at once, the
less likely you are to come on too strong. Your
attitude will radiate, "If it doesn't happen here I
can move on." You will be perceived as confident,
relaxed, not desperate for a date with her.
When focusing on only one, for you, the stakes
are high. She feels the pressure and would rather
fold than stick around to see your hand.
Young women come and go out of your life
instantly. She is unstable, impulsive and
irresponsible. She is quick to get married, engaged
or hook a boyfriend. New boyfriends don't get
cheated on for a year. She's interested in
immediate change when something is wrong. She quits
her job after two frustrating days. She changes
apartments, roommates and phone numbers faster than
you change your socks.
Just after you managed to talk with her three
days in a row down by the pool and then had her
over for a drink last night, she decides, "Debbie
and I are moving to Oregon. We want to get out of
the smog, live a natural life." Puke!
When you have a string of pearls, Katy at the
coffee shop, Denice at the print shop and Laurie at
the office, the opportunity for it to "just happen"
Keep the hopper full. Have at least three, more
if you can handle it gracefully. I can't. As one
disappears, get another going. Keeping your options
open is good business, no matter what business
All of this is based on my years of find, meet,
talk, date experience in the real world. And is
explained by the biological nature of females
creating a different sexual agenda than males.
©2008 R. Don
Other Relationship Issues,
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
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