A String of Pearls Makes You Patient

Right near the top of Steel Balls Principles is: Three pearls are mandatory at all times, even after you have a girlfriend!

Pearl Defined: a woman one is not yet dating. You are courting her. Showing her all the facets of your diamond while increasing your desirability using the many proven methods of the Steel Balls Principles. She is just another pearl on your string, so to speak. If you believe women do not do this, you are sadly mistaken. Ask your sister!

Here is the information directly from How to Date Young Women:

A String of Pearls Makes You Patient. Always have a string to work on at least three young pearls long. With only two, when you "fold 'em" with the first, you'll only have one, that's the same as having none.

The more of them you're working on at once, the less likely you are to come on too strong. Your attitude will radiate, "If it doesn't happen here I can move on." You will be perceived as confident, relaxed, not desperate for a date with her.

When focusing on only one, for you, the stakes are high. She feels the pressure and would rather fold than stick around to see your hand.

Young women come and go out of your life instantly. She is unstable, impulsive and irresponsible. She is quick to get married, engaged or hook a boyfriend. New boyfriends don't get cheated on for a year. She's interested in immediate change when something is wrong. She quits her job after two frustrating days. She changes apartments, roommates and phone numbers faster than you change your socks.

Just after you managed to talk with her three days in a row down by the pool and then had her over for a drink last night, she decides, "Debbie and I are moving to Oregon. We want to get out of the smog, live a natural life." Puke!

When you have a string of pearls, Katy at the coffee shop, Denice at the print shop and Laurie at the office, the opportunity for it to "just happen" is tripled.

Keep the hopper full. Have at least three, more if you can handle it gracefully. I can't. As one disappears, get another going. Keeping your options open is good business, no matter what business you're in.

All of this is based on my years of find, meet, talk, date experience in the real world. And is explained by the biological nature of females creating a different sexual agenda than males.

©2008 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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