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Dressing for Sexual Success
Continued from last week. The number one Steel
Balls Principle is: First you have to look like
someone she wants to talk with.
You must look good and dress well all the time
if you’re serious. That doesn’t mean
jacket and tie. It means wearing tasteful,
fashionable clothing, appropriate to the
situation.
I suggest you dress as sharply as possible based
on what the situation permits. In some settings
T-shirts are fine but a henley shirt would not be
over dressed but sharper, especially the color you
look best in. I get the most compliments in dark
green and black. You know what yours are. It gives
you an edge. W. C. Fields and I only want “a
fair advantage.”
Never, never leave the house without being well
dressed even if you are only going to the
supermarket. The one time you don’t take those
ten extra minutes to look good will be the day
Laurie Longleggs is working as cashier, alone,
bored and only you to talk with.
Clothes will not make you look younger. She
views a man of 40 dressed like a 22 year old the
same way you look at a fiftyish woman in a
mini-skirt. Besides turning her off, it will cause
you to be secretly ridiculed everywhere, including
your company.
ABSOLUTE NO NO’S. Brown shoes are worn only
with beige or brown attire. Got it? Brown belts,
brown socks, brown jackets, brown any-damn-thing,
only goes with brown. There are a few exceptions
after you have mastered all the fundamentals.
Here are my biggest
“don’t’s.”
To avoid looking like a pathetic Sugar Daddy or
just a putz, never wear bright colors or anything
blatantly polyester. Avoid the rest of these the
same way you avoid women who are fat, angry ball
busters:
Two-tone shoes including golf shoes, aloha
shirts, any hat, ball caps, boxer underwear, white
jockey underwear, any undershirt, Bermuda shorts,
Speedo brief trunks, patent leather shoes, elevator
shoes, high heels, plaid or patterned pants or
shirts, loud ties, light colored suits, cowboy
boots, muscle shirts, bedroom slippers, sandals,
Beatle boots, Wallabys, Top Siders, Hush Puppies,
sans-belt slacks, pajamas, jump suits, suspenders,
pants pocket handkerchiefs, shawl sweaters, button
front sleeveless sweaters, matching warmup suits
and any retro attire such as bell bottoms or
tie-dyed T-shirts.
Mandatory do-without’s:
Gold chains, pinky rings, gaudy, gold
ostentatious watches and rings, gold bracelets.
Time out!
If you’re wearing more than $200 worth of
jewelry and accessories, including the wrist watch,
you’re trying to impress her with your money.
You want her to want you, not what you can buy her.
Let the fools driving Mercedes 500 SEC’s
behave like that. They’re the ones who must
buy her.
Time in!
Any necklace, glasses on a string around your
neck, lapel buttons, large belt buckles, half-lens
glasses, cell phone, paging beepers, sweat bands or
head bands, clip on tie, any tie clasp or tack,
calculator watches, shirt pocket-protecting pen
holders and any 60’s or 70’s
ornamentation like turquoise, silver or beads.
If you doubt any of this information, ask any
woman you are good friends with. Don’t argue,
just listen and learn from the mouths of babes!
©2008 R. Don
Steele
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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