Question: Ive tried to start several
and gotten nowhere. Ive exchanged several
messages with women in their 30s. Any
guidelines for this? Is it worth pursuing?
Answer:: I describe email as EUNUCH MALE.
That is a concise phrase that describes all the
dating experts hustling seduce
women on the internet nonsense. The media is
full of DRIVEL about how busy women are so they
turn to the internet. I want to make my views on
this crystal clear. The only women on the internet
are women who CANNOT GET A DATE. When you get on
the internet you have filtered out all of the
normal women and are left with a bunch
of losers. I hope that is clear.
With that said, I now add, the internet is
populated by geeks, nerds, fatsos and losers of all
stripes. About two percent of the Web people are
normal, that is, they have a life. Finding them is
difficult. Emotion is what man-woman is all about.
The CRT interface is not conducive to emotion. Thus
even if you did find a woman in the two percent
range, romancing her via keyboard is
Dont waste your keystrokes and your life!
People online do not have a life because they
dont have what it takes to have a life.
And with that said, I have a book coming out in
about six months. The working title is Coffee Date
Handbook. This book is a compilation of all the
methods, techniques, messages, wording and internet
ads that work developed by approximately 300 men of
steel balls over the past five years. I teach men
how to get back into the dating scene by going on
Coffee Dates with women the meet on the internet.
The caveat is, You are never going to go out with
her for real, so relax and learn how to shake
hands, converse, compliment, end the date, exchange
phone numbers, say goodbye and how to stay in touch
with those very few who MIGHT ring your chimes. The
reality is out of about 1000 internet dates, Gary
of Philly and Tony of Charleston found semi-normal
women and dated them for months. The endings were
unpleasant and both guys learned how to find, meet,
talk, date, relate.
We have a file of internet ads that WORK and
examples of photos that WORK in the files at Steel
Balls Discussion Group. The first effective ads
were written by Vince, George and Strato. And there
is a lengthy file on how to spot Whacky WWW women
immediately using their email responses and their
phone techniques! Well worth joining the SBDG.
Simply click on DISCUSSION GROUP at steelballs.com
Joanna and I are going to Stratos WEDDING
this August. He first attended our workshop in
January of 2000. He was 29 and had never had a
girlfriend! This stuff works!
©2009 R. Don
Other Relationship Issues,
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
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