Use birth control pills or nosex?

Question: How do you spell it out to the woman that she must use some birth control pills or no sex?

Answer: You don’t spell it out! You tactfully, diplomatically and carefully attempt to find out her views on birth control during Phase 1 as explained in How To Date Young Women. If you can’t figure out if she’s on the pill or uses a method other than Vatican Roulette, you must assume that your new name will be Daddy!

Some young women in my life were Vatican Roulette players! I’m not kidding. Their logic? “I haven’t gotten pregnant yet and I’ve been screwing since tenth grade.” My response was to insert a spermicidal suppository once the foreplay reached the bedroom. They never objected.

Nowadays with the MEDIA induced INSANITY about the possibility of AIDS, Joanna advises all men to just use a condom. Don’t discuss it. Don’t even mention it just do it. Once you and she have been together for a long time, you can discuss birth control. As Joanna explained in her April workshop, the condoms MUST NOT be in the nightstand as women SNOOP and PRY thru everything when you are on the phone or in the bathroom every time she is at your place. Condoms in the nightstand mean to her you are a PLAYER, end of your relationship.

For those who do not believe what I wrote about AIDS ABSURDITY in Volume 2 of How to Date Young Women, read the recent issue of Details magazine and understand you have been HOSED once again by the Media.

The latest TRUTH about STD is always part of the Steel Balls Discussion Group as we have two MD’s who have the inside track on this info. Join us on the www by clicking on DISCUSSION GROUP at

©2007 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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