Nobody wants to play second fiddle
Question: What did you mean by this?
Come on to one and you ruin it with all the
Answer: At any gathering, including
work, once you hit on one woman, all other females
know about it within hours, if not minutes. If you
are shot down by the first one, no others will have
anything to do with you because they do not want to
be your second choice.
NOTE: This principle is included in the free
video THE X SHOW at http://steelballs.com briefly
mentioned when the host says, the long walk
Thats why it is crucial to take your time.
You are polite and friendly with one and all but
you do not flirt with any of them, no matter how
blatant they come on to you. The ones who come on
quick are game players and Rapo experts.
At any social gathering look the place over.
Follow the instructions regarding getting noticed
as explained in HOW TO DATE YOUNG WOMEN with
Do You Know Him Gambit. Use that routine on no
more than two candidates.
Women who show signs of interest are the only
ones to focus on. Narrow it down to two, talk with
each one in a friendly, not flirty manner for about
five minutes. As you talk, be aware of signs of
interest as shown in the free video TRA EXCERPTS at
http://steelballs.com. Then walk away for a while,
demonstrating that you have The Right Attitude.
Circulate as you study body language of the
INTERESTED women from afar. Notice the emphasis on
only interested women? The biggest mistake men make
other than not being dressed for success and not
having a haircut/style that makes them masculine
and manly is APPROACHING THE WRONG WOMAN. Who is
the wrong woman? The one with the large breasts,
blonde hair and red dress WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN
YOU! Why is she wrong? Because you have ruined it
with all other women! FOREVER!
©2010 R. Don
Other Relationship Issues,
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
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