Hey 19! Hot the Song - Continued

Question: This is my version of what he is asking. I am attracted to a 19 year old, what do I do?

Answer: Short version: Same thing you do with any woman who is interested in you. Long version below his long explanation.

This is PART 2

I get so many questions about dance classes it is unreal! The women in dance classes are all there to meet men they can use and control, which is what women want to do no matter where they meet men. Well it’s not really what they want, they want a Man, a strong, dominant Man and if they can’t have that, they want someone they can control so they don’t get hurt, again.

If you want to date a woman from dance class you must pick one and live with your choice because once you show interest in one, all others will have nothing to do with you because as I explained in Body Language Secrets, nobody wants to be second fiddle.

Since the 19 year old is attractive to all the other men, you must be different and not be attracted to her! To quote my favorite author, “Different works.”

If you want to take a chance with the 19 year old, here’s the plan of attack. You ignore her except for polite acknowledgment of her existence. You watch and you wait. Now and then when you make eye contact, show intense lust, burning lust, in your eyes. When you are standing around waiting, face her with the front of your body but don’t look at her. Wait for her to make a move. When she does, you must be strong, firm and manly. You must not be swept off YOUR feet. You MUST treat her like she’s just another woman in your life.

FINAL ADVICE. Do what I said above about ignoring her and waiting until she makes a move. That lesson will serve you well in the coming decades!

You can’t mess that up, and you can learn something extremely useful while doing it.

CAUTION! Some Rapo players are as young as 14. There are 19 year old Rapo players, too. How do I know? I’ve been had by them! If it’s too good to be true, it ain’t.

Aloha, RDS Thanks for the opportunity to be read!

©2008 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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