Spreads her Legs?

My question is whether her posture and body language said something that should have triggered me to do something, like go over and talk with her. As I walked back into the coffee section of the bookstore, I noticed the sexually enticing posture of a young cutie. Relaxed and reclined in her chair, legs spread 45 degrees, her tight jeans hugging her crotch with real evidence of labial contours in the denim of her crotch. Yummy!

Questions: Is this the same as a woman faces you with the front of her body? If not, could she possible be nothing more than a tease? If not that, does this unladylike posture indicate sexual arousal?

Steele Sez: Question 1. No, spreading her legs is not even remotely similar to facing you with the front of her body when she's sitting or standing. Spreading her legs and slouching in the chair indicates nothing more than being relaxed, comfortable, and confident. However, the "confident" part of the interpretation is possibly "unaware of her unladylike posture."

Question 2. She could be nothing more than a tease or she could be trolling for men by advertising her figure. In my lifetime of experience, 90 percent of women who dress in sweaters, jeans or whatever that are tight enough to draw a second look, are teases, who are of no interest to me or they are so immature they don't realize how ridiculous they look, thus, they are of no interest to me.

Question 3. No. That posture does not indicate sexual arousal. Being turned on is indicated by "high courtship readiness" postures and gestures as explained, and shown in the photos, in Body Language Secrets.

©2007 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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