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Overweight Women
Question: How can I make my girlfriend lose
weight, about 10-12 pounds. She is very beautiful
but these extra pounds make her look really
bad.
Answer: Getting her to lose weight is a
damned near impossible task! Lead by example and
hope for the best.
The only thing that worked during 14 years in
private practice as a psychotherapist and doing
marriage counseling that worked was for the man to
become intensely interested in losing weight and
building his body.
Before, after and while he does this he never
mentions her weight or build. He just focuses on
getting in shape. The subtle, subconscious message
is “I’m going to be more attractive to
women when this is completed. Women will be coming
after me.”
The woman sometimes loses weight just to keep
his attention. “Sometimes” is the
operative word.
WARNING: The Gate of Change is latched from the
inside and can only be opened by the person on the
inside! Nagging and threatening are harmful at a
minimum.
©2007 R. Don
Steele
Other Relationship Issues,
Books
Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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