Online Romance

Question: I’ve tried to start several and gotten nowhere. I’ve exchanged several messages with women in their 30’s. Any guidelines for this? Is it worth pursuing?

Answer:: I describe email as EUNUCH MALE. That is a concise phrase that describes all the “dating experts” hustling “seduce women on the internet” nonsense. The media is full of DRIVEL about how busy women are so they turn to the internet. I want to make my views on this crystal clear. The only women on the internet are women who CANNOT GET A DATE. When you get on the internet you have filtered out all of the “normal” women and are left with a bunch of losers. I hope that is clear.

With that said, I now add, the internet is populated by geeks, nerds, fatsos and losers of all stripes. About two percent of the Web people are normal, that is, they have a life. Finding them is difficult. Emotion is what man-woman is all about. The CRT interface is not conducive to emotion. Thus even if you did find a woman in the two percent range, romancing her via keyboard is impossible.

Don’t waste your keystrokes and your life! People online do not have a life because they don’t have what it takes to have a life.

And with that said, I have a book coming out in about six months. The working title is Coffee Date Handbook. This book is a compilation of all the methods, techniques, messages, wording and internet ads that work developed by approximately 300 men of steel balls over the past five years. I teach men how to get back into the dating scene by going on Coffee Dates with women the meet on the internet. The caveat is, You are never going to go out with her for real, so relax and learn how to shake hands, converse, compliment, end the date, exchange phone numbers, say goodbye and how to stay in touch with those very few who MIGHT ring your chimes. The reality is out of about 1000 internet dates, Gary of Philly and Tony of Charleston found semi-normal women and dated them for months. The endings were unpleasant and both guys learned how to find, meet, talk, date, relate.

We have a file of internet ads that WORK and examples of photos that WORK in the files at Steel Balls Discussion Group. The first effective ads were written by Vince, George and Strato. And there is a lengthy file on how to spot Whacky WWW women immediately using their email responses and their phone techniques! Well worth joining the SBDG. Simply click on DISCUSSION GROUP at Joanna and I are going to Strato’s WEDDING this August. He first attended our workshop in January of 2000. He was 29 and had never had a girlfriend! This stuff works!

©2009 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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