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Why Dress for Success
This is from Scott, a successful, independent
businessman of 52 who says, "I don't wear ties
except at funerals."
Scott went on to say he does not like the
mandates on how to dress for success with young
women that are aimed at guys just starting out on
this magnificent quest in the long, detailed
chapter LOOKING GOOD. That's where I explain what I
learned the hard way at the very beginning, "Women
are clothes crazy. They eat, sleep and live
clothes. They are instantly impressed by a well
dressed Man."
STEELE SEZ: At your peril, ignore the advice on
how to dress well and the impact fashionable ties
have on young women. The way a woman's mind works
when she first sees you is: "He's wearing a tie,
therefore he's successful. It's a fashionable tie,
therefore, umm! he has taste. This might be worth
taking a chance."
So, Scott, you decide if you want the equation
above to function or if you want to be a 50ish guy
who knows that you are successful and worthwhile
but does not appear like that to a woman when you
make that first impression which is a lasting
impression. And, you don't get a second chance to
make a first impression.
Strongly consider Joanna’s Dress for
Successful Dating workshop. She spends 3 days with
you and a few other guys making you LOOK like
somebody women want to talk with. That is the first
step!
WHY WEAR A TIE: In my on-line Steel Balls
Discussion Group most new guys object to wearing a
tie. Here's the quote directly from How to
Date:
Wear a tie is when the occassion makes it
possible to do so without looking STUFFY, which is
the kiss of death. Daddy's stuffy. Professors are
stuffy. Be a well dressed man with style and taste
NOT stuffy.
The tie is a phallic symbol! There are 200 years
of subconscious learning behind this STIFF
advantage you have on guys who opt for a polo shirt
or open collar! When the phallic symbol is dark
red, not Donald Trump bright red, you let her know
on a subconscious level that you are a virile,
powerful Man, not a boy.
Women, young women and just about all men equate
a suit and tie with POWER AND STRENGTH and BEING IN
CHARGE. Boys aren't dressed like that. MEN are.
Young women who will date you are tired of boys.
They want a Man. Look like a powerful, virle MAN
and you the seduction begins when she LOOKS at
you.
©2007 R. Don
Steele
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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