When to Move in with Her
I often hear from guys who are inexperienced or
recently divorced. They have followed the advice
and are dating older women to gain the knowledge,
skills and self-confidence necessary to move down
the age ladder and up the beauty scale. The Steel
Balls principle they are following is,
The better looking the woman you are dating is,
the better looking the next woman you date will
Although things are going great, the woman wants
to move in after only a few months! The guy
hesitates and writes to me.
STEELE SEZ: I understand the desire and need for
companionship and sex. That is normal and natural.
However, when you start living together, it stunts
your growth and stops your progress down the age
ladder and up the beauty scale. If you truly want
to date YOUNG attractive women, you must have a lot
of experience with women who are not so attractive.
Then lots of experience with moderately attractive
women. Not just one or two or three!
As always, your goals determine your decisions.
As I say in Body Language Secrets, everything has
its disadvantages. Decide which disadvantage you
want. Thats not meant to be glib.
©2010 R. Don
Other Relationship Issues,
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
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