Where are all the young women?

Question: There is a high ratio of men to women in the Silicon Valley (CA). Do you know of any good places where I can move and find a lot of young women. I’ve been considering San Diego or Santa Cruz, or maybe Portland. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Answer: LA is the center of the universe. The best looking women in the universe live at the center of the universe and in Orange County and in The Valley. This is my personal view. Many readers will disagree, but remember, I was there from 1963-1996, so I know how it works and what it takes. Guys not used to LA, find the women too full of themselves. The trick is to NOT look for young women any place near Hollyweird. Over there, they are all wannabe showbiz bunnies. Useless.

If you want to have the odds in your favor, the ratio of women to men is highest in Washington DC. 1.25:1. However, you should have a snub-nosed .357 and a Kevlar vest to live there, or be buddies with Crack Head Mayor Marion.

As to leaving the Silicon Valley, since you have invested so much time and money there, first be slim and trim as well as dressed right, then change companies. Go on interviews and note the male to female ratio. Insurance and publishing are 80-90 percent female! Remember, as I emphasized in How To Date Young Women, first you get into shape and looking good, then you change everything because women who knew you when you were overweight and dressed like a dork will always see you that way! With your job skills and education you are highly desirable any damn place.

Another possibility is an isolated city with a major university as its main industry. State College, PA, home of Penn State is 100 miles from everything. The university has 35,000 students! The town is full of co-eds all the time, in every store, in every bar, in every restaurant and club! Plus, they’re tired of boys! Do some research. Perhaps Chico State in Northern CA?

A reader sent this tip on where “they” are: “Down-town San Francisco, where I live, has a great ratio of women to men. (plus the large gay population makes it seem even better for us straights). Insurance and publishing, especially Web publishing, are very big here.” (Sounds good to me!) Austin, Texas has also received several recommendations. Big university, state capitol (office workers) beautiful area. One guy said as a note of warning that “It’s an oasis in a sea of rednecks.”

If you push me for an answer as to which city, I’ll have to say Southern California: Torrance, Downey, Orange or Irvine. From reading How To Date Young Women you know to immediately enroll in the RIGHT classes in the three closest Junior Colleges?

Joanna and I encourage the guys to make the trip to Southern California a MINI-VACATION for yourself. Sunshine and the most beautiful women on the planet, guaranteed! Arrive on Wednesday and fly home the next Tuesday. Venice Beach, Hollyweird, Disneyland, Huntington Beach Babes, Frisco’s 50’s Diner, Hustler Store on Sunset, Walk of Fame, Knott’s Berry Farm. Sunshine and the most beautiful women on the planet, guaranteed!

©2008 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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