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"Missed" Opportunities
I always beat up on myself, because I see
opportunities to take action with women, but I
don't take them. The other day I was at the mall,
and there was this beautiful girl working at a
store, and I was the only one there, and it would
have been easy to do the "goodbye compliment" or
"goodbye introduction," but I just couldn't. I
really feel like a loser. What should I do?
--Don
Dear Don,
This may surprise you, but the more men we
coach, the more sure we become that it is true:
Seeing an opportunity and NOT taking it is part of
the process of learning to take it. So when you see
an opportunity to talk to a woman, and you don't do
it, know this: that's part of doing it.
It's like doing a little dry-run in your head.
Or, you might say it's like there is this seducer
guy inside of you, that you are learning to bring
out. This guy comes out one step at a time. First
he notices the situations where he could take
action. Then, in time, he takes the action. But the
first part (noticing the action, but not taking it)
usually comes before the second (actually taking
the action).
Beating yourself up actually make this process
go SLOWER, and makes it more painful. Our
experience and the experience of our students has
shown us over and over again that you can get
through this process faster if you don't beat
yourself up for seeing opportunities and not taking
them. Best is to say, "Oh, that was an
opportunity.
What might I have done?" Then run through it in
your head, followed by "Great! I'm one more step
closer to doing it." Soon you'll find yourself just
doing it--if you allow the process to happen.
© 2007, Mastery
Technologies, Inc.
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