A Highly Successful Seducer Always
Pursures more than One Woman
In interviewing and modeling the behavior of
Effective Seducers, we learned a terrible truth: if
you are trying to become an expert seducer,
pursuing only one woman is worse for your sex life
than pursuing none at all!
Why is pursuing only one woman as damaging to
your sex life as pursuing none at all? Because when
you are only pursuing one woman, you have no
back-up plan. You have all your eggs in one basket.
You can't be playful and pursue her unconcerned
with outcomes, because if she's your only prospect,
she's your only chance for sex. You'll get overly
concerned that if things don't work out you won't
have anyone else to pursue. Also, when you are only
pursing one woman it most likely will make you
dependent on her in some way. You will likely push
her away from this dependency attitude. Further, if
after a few dates she doesn't like you, then you
will feel that there is something wrong with you.
Your inability to relax with her will drive her
away and leave you feeling bad about yourself.
Many of our students have fallen into this trap.
You can follow all the other habits of the Highly
Effective Seducer, but if you only pursue one
women, you will never experience an abundant sex
If you are pursuing a variety of women, adding
in more all the time and dropping out ones that
don't work out for you, no single woman's response
to you takes on much significance. You are able to
relax, be playful, and unconcerned about her
responses to your seduction. You'll be able to say
to yourself "Hey, if she doesn't want me, there are
plenty of women waiting in the wings to take her
place," and know it's true.
Pursuing more than one woman also makes you more
patient with the women you are seducing, because
you have a variety of women at different points in
your seduction. When a man is pursuing a variety of
women, it doesn't matter to him if one of them is
being uncommunicative, is mean to him one day, or
is moody. He knows he doesn't have to rush her in
any way, because he has his needs met other places.
This makes him an easier man to be around, and much
more attractive to women.
Pursuing more than one woman is also important
when you finally are having sex. If you stop
pursuing other women once you have a lover she will
become your girlfriend, whether you like it or not.
Studies have shown that men's body chemistry
actually becomes physically addicted to a woman he
sleeps with on a regular basis. That's fine if you
want a girlfriend, but if you want casual
short-term relationships with women you must
continue to pursue other women, even after you've
got the first one in bed.
Women are attracted to men who are relaxed,
creative and exciting. Pursuing more than one woman
brings out both of these qualities. When you know
the woman you are pursuing is one of many, her
response matters less than it would if she were
your only hope for sex. You can be more relaxed,
because you aren't risking offending your only
possible sexual partner. If you do lose her for
some reason, you can just move on to the next
woman. Pursuing more than one woman also brings out
your creativity and makes you more exciting,
because pursuing multiple women keeps you engaged
with life in a creative exciting way. These
qualities attract women.
Highly Effective Seducers always pursue more
than one woman. They don't put all their eggs in
one basket at the beginning of a dating
relationship, and have more success with women
every step of the way.
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