Dear Ron and David,
I've been dating a woman, and it turned sexual
and everything was going great. The problem
happened the next morning, when she opened my
bedstand drawer and noticed a couple of porn
magazines I had in there. She got really disgusted
and went through them, one page at a time, lying on
my bed and reading aloud in a derisive voice all
the dumb comments they put next to the pictures.
"Oh, I'm sure she said this!" Blah blah blah. I
totally didn't know what to do.
- Shamed porn-lover
When you are seducing a woman for the first few
times, she simply shouldn't be allowed to find out
that you have pornography. The only exception is if
she asks to see some while you are having sex, and
this is rare. Put it away where she won't find it
while she's looking for skin lotion or a shirt to
wear while she makes coffee the next morning.
As you get to know her better, continue to keep
your porn where she won't see it, until you can
figure out how she feels about it. The main thing
you need to know is that if she hates porn, you
must never argue with her about it. Simply listen
to what she has to say, then change the subject.
Arguing about pornography will never change a
woman's mind on the subject. Don't even try. And
keep it away from her.
In your situation you needed to change the
scene. Women can be real ball-busters about porn,
and you simply have to change the scene and get her
thinking about something else. Tell her you want to
make her breakfast, or take her out to breakfast.
Take a walk with her.
Anything to get her out of your bedroom, and
away from your porn.
On the upside, while a lot of women really hate
porn, a lot of those women have accepted that men
like porn, and that their love of porn is one of
the flaws of men they simply have to try to ignore.
So make it easy for her, and get her away from your
porn. She'll never be able to ignore it as long as
she's holding it in her hands.
Ron Louis and David Copeland
© 2007, Mastery
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