Asking Women Out and Meeting Women Online
Q: Hey Guys--I just wanted to ask how to close the
deal with a girl. After talking to them for a while
I still have trouble getting their number, or
asking them out on a date. I would appreciate your
advice, Needs the Number
A: This is simpler than you might think. After
chatting with a woman for a while, and doing some
of the flirting moves so she knows you are
interested, you simply say, "hey, you seem cool.
What would it be like if we went out for a cup of
coffee sometime? Could I have your email address,
or phone number?" If she says yes, try to set up
the date right then.
It's really just a matter of opening your mouth
(or, as Ron calls it, your "pie trap") and risking
rejection by ASKING HER.
Q: Hi Ron and David--I bought your book and I am
almost halfway through it. I decided to start
trying to talk to women through the internet ads
and have done a massive email campaign. I sent out
emails on 23 different ads and have not received
one friggin' response. I am trying to remain
positive but this is disheartening in the extreme.
I don't think that I am a hideous looking guy, but
I sent my picture with the response to the ads, in
order to forgo the later rejection if I happen not
to be their type. please advise me on what else I
am doing wrong. Thanks, Frustrated
A: Dear Frustrated,
Let's go over some of the basics of getting
women on-line. First, sending out 23 emails and
getting no response shouldn't be a big deal to you.
On-line, no response is the norm, so you have to be
able to move quickly through large numbers of
women. The secret is quickly, quickly,
quickly--using the same email, or one that requires
very minimal changes, for each woman.
There's three ways to meet women on-line:
1) On-line personals ads. This means both
placing and answering ads. Remember, no where is it
more of a number's game than on-line.
2) Chatting with women. AOL is our chatting
means of choice. To you techies out there, yes, we
know you hate AOL, hate what the software does to
your system, etc. However, if you have AOL, you can
search for women who meet your criteria, and find
out if they are on-line. If they are, you can
Instant Message (IM) them right away, and a certain
percentage of the time get conversations going.
Here's how you do it:
In the AOL software: Under PEOPLE, Hit SEARCH
AOL MEMBER DIRECTORY. Now hit the box in the bottom
right corner that says RETURN ONLY MEMBERS ONLINE.
Now hit ADVANCED SEARCH, and put in things like
location, or shared interests. You might look under
"new age," or "astrology" or whatever kind of woman
you think you have a chance with. Oh yes, and also
click FEMALE. This will return a list of women who
are on-line right now, who you can talk with.
Double click on their names to bring up their
profile, if they have one. From there you can hit
LOCATE and SEND IM. Just start with something like
3) Seeking interesting women and emailing them
directly. You do this the same way you seek women
on-line, as we just covered. The only difference is
you don't check RETURN ONLY MEMBERS ONLINE. It will
then give you a list of all women who meet your
criteria. You can literally send them all the same
Remember, it's a numbers game. Move quickly, and
get through hundreds of women, and you'll have
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