Do's and Don'ts of Dating Younger Women
Dear Dating gurus,
I want to date hot young women, but always fail.
I'm 35, and would love to sleep with girls I see on
campus (I live in a college town). I am clueless,
what should I do?
David: Pay attention, all you horny guys who
want to date younger women; this is for you. There
are some simple secrets that you must know.
Ron: Ah, the younger woman...the much
sought-after babe. But if you are 35+, women in
their early 20s would never want you, right?
David: First, you must realize that many younger
women are more attracted to older men than they are
to those drones their own age. They want someone
who is sensitive, mature, and experienced. In case
you didn't notice, that's you, bucko!
Ron: So you want to find those 20 year olds who
want an older man. Don't blow it by trying to be
"hip" like the guys her age. You'll just look like
an idiot with your too-big pants and your hat on
backwards. At the same time, don't draw attention
to her comparative youth. The worst is to lecture
her about how you were when you were her age, and
what you have learned. If women your age don't
care, why should she?
David: Create experiences that she normally
wouldn't have-a date off-campus, a nice restaurant,
or a drive in the country. Avoiding being with her
in places her peers will likely be-it will be
uncomfortable for her and you.
Ron: To get sex with younger women, you must
convince yourself that your age is a benefit. Some
girls will reject you because of it, but others
will sleep with you because of it, too. So muster
up the courage to ask out that beautiful
20-year-old. She may well be the girl for you.
I'm a divorced father of two kids, in my mid-40s
and just now back on the dating scene after being
married for 15 years. How do I get over these
disadvantages so I can get back into dating?
Ron: You're actually much better off than you
think. Right now you think you have all these
disadvantages-you're too old, you're out of
practice, you have kids, and so on.
David: But those aren't minuses-they're plusses,
if you play your cards right.
Ron: The key for you is to start seeing your
disadvantages as advantages. You're not just
divorced-you've proven your ability to commit, over
a fifteen year period! Women love that! You have
kids-a lot of women you will date have them too. By
being a good father, you are more attractive to
these women then guys who are unproven in
relationships and with families.
David: The bottom line is, a lot of women out
there are looking for a guy like you-a mature,
proven quantity who can keep together a long-term
relationship and is good with children. Your main
problem is that you believe that all these factors
are work against you when actually they work for
Ron: Of course, they won't work for you with all
women. It is true, that with some women, being
older, divorced and with kids will be a reason to
run. But don't hide your past-flaunt it! It can
work for you, if you let it.
© 2008, Mastery
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