Placing Personals Ads
Hey Ron and David,
I have a question. I'm curious, why do you
recommend placing your own personals ad as being
better than trying to find women who are placing
their own ads?
Good question. Your focus should be on searching
through women's personals ads and responding.
However, most services, like AOL personals,
Matchmaker.com, Yahoo, etc., are created in such a
way that you must email the women from your own
account, or from your ad.
Women then go and read your ad, after reading
you're mail to them, and assess whether or not they
might be interested in you. So you must then have a
good ad that is seductive and alluring.
The point you are making, with which we totally
agree, is that you must be the one to initiate
contact, take all the risks, etc., while still
remembering that it's a numbers game. Thanks for
Ron & David
You're tapes are absolutely fabulous. Well worth
10 times the price. Your advice is right on. I've
listened to the Mastery Program many times so far
and continue to learn and perfect my skills. Many,
I have run into a problem. I'll meet a woman,
the chemistry is definitely there, I ask deepening
Then I ask for her number, and get it. Then when
I call, a day later, her answering machine will
come on, and I leave a message (up beat,
complimentary etc), but receive no return call. I
know she was interested, so what type of message
should I leave on the next call to entice her to
call back? She's not my one and only hope; however,
I am interested.
Thanks in advance for your response,
We are glad you like the tapes! It is true that
seductions can live or die on the answering
machine, and just because she doesn't call you back
doesn't mean anything. Did you ask for her email
when you got her number? That would be a good
practice to follow in the future. It's easy to get
her email when you get her phone number, and you
can use email to set up a date.
It may be time to find out how you can
"annonymize" your calls...that's when you type
something into the phone, often *67 (check to see
what it is in your area) before dialing, and her
caller ID won't work. You can then call her and see
if she picks up, without her knowing you called
her. The other approach would be to sometimes call
using *67 and see if she picks up, and sometimes
not. I'd call once every couple of days for a week
or so, sometimes hiding the number, sometimes not.
I'd leave a message in a couple of days, then only
settle for real contact.
Best of luck!
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