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April 20 - The U.S. Supreme Court rules in favor of busing to end racial segregation in public schools.(1975) * Students Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold killed 12 other students, a teacher and themselves at Columbine High School (1999). * Holocaust Remembrance Day - Day to mourn Jewish victims of genocide and anti-Semitism, make peace, and celebrate empowerment of Jewish Americans. Hebrew calendar date: Nisan 27, 5761 is a day established by Israel's Knesset as a memorial to the Jewish dead of WWII. This is the day on which Allied troops liberated the first Nazi concentration camp, Buchenwald, north of Weimar, Germany, where about 56,000 prisoners, many of them Jewish, perished. This is the same day that Adolf Hitler was born in 1889. * Miners struggling for recognition of their United Mine Workers Union were attacked at Ludlow, CO by National Guard troops (1914) The Guardsmen were paid by the mining company. A tent colony was destroyed, five men and one boy were killed by machine-gun fire and eleven children and two women were burned to death. * * Birthdays: Luther Vandross, George Takei, Daniel Chester French, Holland Smith, Crispin Glover, Joey Lawrence, David Leland, Donald Arthur (Don) Mattingly, Ryan O'Neal, Steve Spurrier.
Learning to respect your body is challenging in a world filled with excess and temptation. Going along with the group and indulging yourself is sometimes a lot easier than respecting your boundaries. Indulging yourself now and then is fine - as long as you are not compromising your own special requirements. If you know spicy food makes you sick, but you love it anyway, how many times do you need to indulge and compromise your body's truth before you learn to respect its limitations? If Life is a Game, These are the Rules
She always has a tube of lotion, maybe handcuffs, or something unusual tucked under the mattress. - Paul, 29 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know
Too often we give children answers to remember rather than problems to solve. - Roger Lewin. Dr. Buff's 365 Day Parenting Calendar
Goodnight to All. Teaching your child to be an independent sleeper may require periodic fine-tuning. An illness, a move, or a change in day care can all disturb your child's rest for a while. But if you are consistent and persistent, the sleep disruption won't last for long - and before you know it, everyone will again be catching some well-deserved zzzs. Family Feelings
In 1986, German gay rights pioneer Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld, using a pseudonym, published Sappho and Sokrates, which suggested same-sex love is something that should be accepted as part of a range of human sexuality. Gay & Lesbian Calendar
A stimulating middlescence, or passage into Second Adulthood, can be a transformative passage, leading us through a second adolescence and into coalescence - when all the wisdom we have gathered from fifty years of experience in living begins to come together. New Passages
Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. H.L. Mencken (1880-1956) The Old Farmer's Almanac
In a marriage cognizant of soul, the partners find a brand of intimacy that is deeper than personal trust and mutual understanding. It is rooted in a distance that allows the soul of the marriage to be inexplicable. Soul Mates
If you are afraid of getting wet, you will never make a good fisherman. - Armenian Proverb. Achieve Your Dreams
Things to Be Happy About: Shredded spuds and onions. Unclogged drains. Cuddling your children. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About
Dads don't yell as much as Moms, but they yell louder. Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me
Difficult circumstances often create paradigm shifts - whole new frames of reference by which people see the world and themselves and others in it. This larger perspective reflects the attitudinal values that lift and inspire us all. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
Get rid of your lawn. You could save a great deal of time, money, effort, energy, water and other natural resources (gas or electricity for the mower), as well as unnatural resources (chemical fertilizers and weed killers), by replacing it with a beautiful, low maintenance, environmentally friendly ground cover. Simplify Your Life
Conflict with a significant other can be a serious source of stress. To minimize the chance of this becoming more stressful than it needs to be, talk with your partner about developing rules for air fighting. Here are a few ideas to get you started: Listen to each other and try to understand the other person's viewpoint. Stick to one issue at a time. Speak one at a time and allow equal time. Focus on solving a problem, rather than attacking the person. Stress Busters
Teach your kids the "Unwrap a Surprise" game. Wrap a prize in sheets of newspaper for a party. Everyone sits in a circle. Someone starts and stops music while guests pass the prize around the circle. When the music stops, the one with the prize unwraps one sheet. Go until a guest unwraps the last sheet. They get the surprise. To Do Today
The path to success is to take massive, determined action. - Anthony Robbins Win the Day!
La luz del dia (loos dehl DEEah) Daylight. Les entraron a robar a plena luz del dia. Their house was robbed in broad daylight. Living Language
Fanaticism consists of rebuilding your effort when you have forgotten your aim. - George Santayana
Sometimes we work ourselves into such a state that we become fanatics. We lose sight of what our goals are, and we rush ahead for the sake of getting there first. But where is "there"?
"Getting there," as the Cunard Line slogan used to say, "is half the fun." But it's more than that. Getting there is half the process, but you must not forget where you're headed. Producing steam simply produces humidity.
I will be clear about my goals and not let the fear of not finishing first enter the picture. Meditations For Men Who Do Too Much
Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. Learn the difference between "being responsible" and "sticking your nose in other people's business." What Every Man Needs to Know Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?
Opposites as Equals: Standard differences between men and women and how to resolve them by Richard and Nancy Ann Driscoll. We can not longer afford to so misunderstand our opposites. See why men are more intrigued by casual sex and tend to be opportunists, but try to conceal it; while women are more easily offended and are more insistent in arguments, but insist that it is not so. See why men are more highly stressed in personal confrontations and withdraw to avoid unpleasantries, which women interpret as indifference. And much, much more. This book finds ways to bridge our differences based on traditional principles of equal concern and shared advantages for men and women. theOppositeSex.info Westside Psychology, 2009, ISBN: 978-0-9634126-6-9
April is Alcohol Awareness; Animal Cruelty Prevention; California Earthquake Preparedness; *Cancer Control, Community Spirit; Couple Appreciation; *Child Abuse Prevention; Holy Humor; Home Improvement Safety; International Amateur Radio; International Customer Loyalty; International Daffynitions; International Legacy; International Twit Award; International Work Life Enrichment; Keep American Beautiful; Mathematics Education; Month of the Young Child; National Autism Awareness; National Humor; National Knuckles Down; National Lawn and Garden; National Poetry Month, National Self-Publishing; National Sexually Transmitted Diseases Education and Awareness; National Youth Sports Safety; Occupational Therapy; Prevent Injuries America; School Library Media; Spring Ahead for Life; Stress Awareness (breathe); World Habitat Awareness; Zam! Zoo and Aquarium Month. And, depending on the school system, it's also Spring Break.
Mar 13-Apr 15: Deaf History Month. Mar 25-Apr 4: Muharram. Mar 26-Apr 2: Navaratri/Gangaur. And Apr 1-7 Testicular Cancer Awareness Week - Get a Grip!, Genital Integrity Awareness Week, Washington, D.C.; Golden Rule; Dumb; International Building Safety; National Blue Ribbon; National Library; National Medical Patient Advocacy; National Occupational Therapy; National Pecan; National Pet First Aid Awareness; National Poetry; Passion; Week of the Young Child Week. Apr 2-6: Strolf-Stretch Week. Apr 2-8: National Public Health Week. Apr 4-10: Hate Week. Apr 6-8: Alcohol-Free Weekend. Apr 8-14: National Garden; National Week of the Ocean; Network Marketing Professionals; *Pan American; Holy Week. Apr 12-18: National Minority Cancer Awareness Week. Apr 15-21: Grange; National Infant Immunization; *National Organ and Tissue Donor Awareness; Reading is Fun Week. Apr 16-20: Consumer Awareness; Egg Salad; Explore Your Career Options; Family Laughing Through Stories; *National Crime Victims Rights; *National Organ and Tissue Donor Awareness; National Organize Your Files; Young People's Poetry Week. Apr 17-23: National Park Week. Apr 21-22: Just Pray No: Worldwide Weekend Prayer. Apr 21-23: Earth Day Weekend. Apr 21-May 2: Festival of Ridvan. Apr 22-28: Administration Professionals; National Karaoke; *National Volunteer; Sky Awareness Week. Apr 22-29: *Jewish Heritage Week. Apr 23-29: Astronomy; National Playground Safety; National TV Turnoff; National YMCA Week. Apr 29-May 5: *National Science and Technology Week.
Apr 1: April Fools'; Check Your Batteries; Lupus Alert; National Repot Your Plant; Sorry Charlie Day; Testicular Cancer - What is it?, Apr 2: International Children's Book; Reconciliation Day, Testicular Cancer - Symptoms. Apr 3 - Testicular Cancer - What the doctors look for . Apr 4: Thank You, School Librarian; Victims of Violence Holy; Testicular Cancer - Prevention, Apr 5 - National Alcohol Screening; *National Equal Pay; National Fun at Work; National Tomb-Sweeping (Taiwan); Tartan Day; Testicular Cancer - Treatment, Apr 6 - Testicular Cancer - Prognosis, Apr 7 -National Hug Your Newsman; UN World Health Day. Testicular Cancer - Automatic monthly reminder, self-exam and other resources. Apr 8: International Feng Shui Awareness Day. Apr 9: *National Former Prisoner of War Recognition; Winston Churchill Day. Apr 10: National Siblings; Salvation Army Founder's Day. Apr 11: Barbershop Quarter Day. Apr 12: Vote Lawyers Out of Office Day. Apr 13: Blame Someone Else; National D.A.R.E. Day, Apr 14: International Moment of Laughter; *Pan American; Remembrance Day. Apr 15: National Coin Day. Apr 17: Blah Blah Blah; National Stress Awareness; National Positive Alternatives for Living; Verrazanoo Day. Apr 18: Pet Owners Independence; Third World Day. Apr 19: John Parker Day. Apr 20: Holocaust; National Youth Service Day. Apr 21: Earth Environmental Angels; Kindergarten; San Jacinto Day. Apr 22: Earth Day Anniversary; Girl Scout Leader Day. Apr 25: Administrative Professionals, Parental Alienation and Hostile Aggressive Parenting Awareness Day. Apr 26: Day of Silence; Hug an Australian: National Playground Safety; Richter Scale; Take Our Daughters to Work Day. Apr 27: Hug a Prom Sponsor; National Arbor National Child Care Professionals; National Hairball Awareness Day, Apr 28: Astronomy; Kiss Your Mate; National Sense of Smell; Native American Heritage Day. Apr 29: Mother, Father Deaf; National Puppetry Day. Apr 30: International Dare of Live; International Walk; National Honesty; Spank Out Day USA.
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