Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

NOVEMBER 10

Days left until the next millennium 01.01.3001

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Achieve Your Dreams

November 10 - The first transcontinental direct dial telephone call is placed between NJ and CA (1951) * The ore carrier Edmund Fitzgerald broke in two during a heavy storm in Lake Superior (1975). There were no survivors of this, the worst Great Lakes ship disaster of the decade, which took the lives of 29 crew members. * Marine Corps birthday (1775). * Launched in 1970, this unmanned spacecraft landed and released Lunakhod 1 (8-wheel radio-controlled vehicle) on Moon's Sea of Rains, which explored lunar surface, sending data back to Earth. * Having begun his search the previous March for the then two-year-missing exporer-missionary David Livingstone, explorer Henry M. Stanley found him on this day at Ujiji (Africa) and uttered those now immortal words, "Dr Livingstone, I presume?" * Veterans Day Observed for federal employees, when a holiday falls on a Saturday, it is observed on the preceding Friday. * Birthday of Martin Luther (1483), Christian reformer who rejected blind obedience to religious authority and recognized the priesthood of all believers. The Mystic's Wheel of the Year * Birthdays: Richard Burton, Oliver Goldsmith, William Hogarth, Jared Kirtland, Roland Emmerich, Russell Charles Means, Sinbad, Roy Scheider, Tim Rice. 

DAILY THOUGHTS

On this day in 1961, Andrew Hatcher is named associate press secretary to Present John F. Kennedy. African American History

I love it when she piles all her hair on top of her head while she's riding me, then lets it fall on my chest. - Dan, 24 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know

When and how do I tell my children that there are bad, mean people in the world who might hurt them? As soon as they can understand it. Explain that not all people are as loving as Mom and Dad, teach them how to be safe, and remind them that you will do everything you can to protect them. Dr. Buff's 365 Day Parenting Calendar

Researchers in the exciting new field of structural biology believe that they will be able to inhibit bad cell actions, like cancer, or get cells to mimic good actions. As our knowledge of the genes involved in the normal processes of tissue repair and maintenance expands, biotechnologists will be able to use that knowledge to repair damage that accumulates by aging. New Passages

...greater awareness does not come in a single blinding flash of enlightenment. It comes slowly, piece by piece, and each piece must be worked for by the patient effort of study and observation of everything, including themselves. They are humble students. The path of spiritual growth is a path of lifelong learning. The Road Less Traveled

If we define sex too narrowly, we may never reach the deeper and wider sources of sexual difficulty. What happens in bed cannot be separated from what happens in life. Soul Mates

The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. - Franklin D. Roosevelt. Achieve Your Dreams

Things to Be Happy About:  Knowing that you slept through the night. The pungent scent of bay leaves. Comfortable movie seats. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

Using a word you don't understand can be embarrassing.  Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

You can begin to learn to trust your messages by starting with the small ones. For example, tune in and trust the simple messages like "Call your mother," or "But that shirt" as a way to build your confidence in your inner radar. Recalling times in the past that trusting your instincts led you to the right course of action will also help.  If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

Amazon armies, thought to have existed in ancient Greece and other Mediterranean countries, were comprised of women warriors and credited with conquering many cities including Smyrna and Ephesus. Notable for their weaponry skills, some of these armies are thought to have had over 30,000 troops. Gay & Lesbian Calendar

When people seriously undertake to identify what really matters most to them in their lives - what they really want to be and to do - they become very referent. They start to think in larger terms than today and tomorrow.  Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

For the next few weeks, try going to sleep without reading in bed. You'll notice a big difference in your moods, in your intuitiveness, and in your level of awareness. You're also much more likely to get a good night's sleep. Simplify Your Life

End Underwear Confusion. When my nieces had trouble telling whose socks and underwear were whose, I recalled my dad's method of handling this problem: Each of us would choose a color of embroidery floss so he could make an X on our things. Then we just separated the blues , pinks, and so on. Parents Tips & Tricks

Back and Leg Relief. With your back flat on the floor, bend your legs to make a right angle with your knees and rest your lower legs on a couch or chair in front of you. You will look as if you are sitting in a chair that has fallen backward. (If you're in your office, you'll probably want to close the door!) Allow yourself to simply rest in this position for 5 to 10 minutes. Pillows can also be piled up under your legs to achieve a "sitting" position if a couch is not available.  Stress Busters

For your daughters: Gang up your nail polish bottles! Just glue colored paper over a shoebox lid. Trace the bottoms of the polish bottles on the lid. Cut the holes out. Slip the bottles inside the holes to keep them together. To Do Today

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. - Thomas Edison.  Win the Day!

Quinto/a (KEENtoh/tah) Fifth. Noemi fue la quinta en la maraton. Noemi came in fifth in the marathon. Living Language

TODAY'S ISSUE: REALITY

I wasn't exactly brought up in one of those Norman Rockwell paintings you used to see on the cover of the Saturday Evening Post. - Reggie Jackson  We have many myths about other people's lives. When we compare ourselves to these stories, we come up short. We have the TV families of Father Knows Best or The Waltons in our minds. We may have stories our father told about his moment of glory and how he met his challenges. Any of these images selects part of the truth and highlights it, creating a myth that might be worthwhile if we don't take it too literally. Living real life never feels as serene as our fantasies. A myth lifts us up, carries us away to other possibilities, but we should always take it with a grain of salt. A father's recollections like a Norman Rockwell painting romanticizes a piece of reality by omitting the drudgery and confusion of life. Myths are meant as inspirations, not as measurements of our lives. Touchstones

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. The difficulties and confusion I feel may just be part of real life. Serenity comes when I accept the mixture that real life is. Touchstones Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

BOOK OF THE WEEK

The Next Ten Minutes: 51 Absurdly Simple Ways to Seize the Moment. by Andrew Peterson. The desire to discover meaning in our lives is a powerful motivator for many people. Some turn to psychotherapy and counseling for help, some turn to spiritual teachings, and many turn to both. The book is the guide to help us discover the seeds of transformation and meaning in even the most ordinary routines. Itconsists of a collection of exercises originally created for use in the author's successful counseling practice. Rather than taking readers out of the everyday, he invites them to move more deeply into the familiar tasks of ordinary life, such as turning simple breathing, eating, physical love, or throwing out the trash into meditative exercises that can transform your day. Based on both Buddhist philosophy and proven psychology techniques, these succinct and accessible meditations also offer simple and effective methods for therapeutic counseling and personal growth. The power to seize the day is but a few simple steps away. Atria Books/Beyond Words, 2010, ISBN 1582702748

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AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

November is International Impotency Awareness Month. We provide background information on this new drug and alternatives to Viagra. Impotency, Viagra and other solutions as well as Books on the subject. National Diabetes Awareness, Lung Cancer Awareness, Native American Heritage, Aviation History, Diabetic Eye Disease, Dummies for Tummies, Epilepsy Awareness, International Drum, *National Adoption, National Alzheimer's Disease, National American Indian Heritage, National Family Caregivers, National Child Safety and Protection, National Life Writing; National Marrow Awareness; National Sleep Comfort; Orphan Disease; Peanut Butter Lovers; Vegan Awareness Month

11/1-12/13:  Merlin's Snug Hugs for Kids, 11/27-12/26: Ramadan. 11/1/00-01/01/01: Tie One on the Safety; 11/4-12/4: Jewish Book Month. 11/26-12/25: Operation Blessing International's 30 Days of Holiday Hope. 11/27-12/26: Ramadan. 11/1-7: Vegan Awareness; World Communication. 11/5-11: Pursuit of Happiness, National Chemistry Week. 11/6-10: Kids' Goals Education Week 11/6-12: Random Acts of Kindness; Shallow Persons Awareness Week 11/8-14: Pursuit of Happiness Week. 11/9-13: Goodwill Annual Used Book Sale. 11/12-18: *American Education; National Geography Awareness, Operating Room Nurse Week. 11/13-19: National Children's Book Week. 11/17-19: National Donor Sabbath. 11/17-23: *National Farm-City Week. 18 -25 November 2000: International Herpes Awareness Week. 11/18 -25 International Herpes Awareness Week 11/19-25:  *National Family; National Family Caregivers; National Game and Puzzle Week. 11/19-26: Bible Week. 11/1-2: Day of the Dead. 11/1 is All Saints Day, National Authors; National Family Literacy. 11/2: US Elecetion Day - Vote Absentee Ballot. All Soul's Day; National Men Make Dinner; 11/3: Culture Day. 11/3-5: Great American Warm-Up; 11/4: Sadie Hawkins; Sweden All Saints. 11/5: Guy Fawkes Day. 11/6: Halfway Point of Autumn. 11/8: Punsters; Abet and Aid Punsters; Cook Something Bold and Pungent; National Young Reader's Day. 11/10: USMC Birthday, Veterans Day (Observed); Lung Cancer Awareness; 11/11: Veterans Day; Remembrance Day; Vox Populi Day. Cook Something Bold Day. 11/12: America Recycles Day. 11/13: World Kindness Day. 11/14: Children's Day (India); National American Teddy Bear; National Community Education Day. 11/15: Gypsy Condemnation Order Anniversary, Shichi-Go-San (Japan); National Educational Support Personnel Day. 11/16: *Great American Smokeout; World Harvest, International Day for Tolerance; 11/17: World Peace Day. 11/19: World's Men's, Have a Bad Day; 11/20: Universal Children's; UN African Industrialization Day. 11/21: UN World Television; World Hello Day. 11/22: National Stop the Violence Day. 11/23: *Thanksgiving Day (US) 11/24: Sinkie Day; Buy Nothing; "What Do You Love about America Day; 11/25: You're Welcomgiving Day. 11/29: UN International Day of Solidarity with the Palestinian People. 11/30: Computer Security; Stay Home Because You're Well Day.

* Means a Presidential Proclamation has been made.

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