Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

MARCH 29

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Achieve Your Dreams

March 29 - The House Select Committee on Assassinations released the final report on its investigation into the assassinations of President John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, jr., and Robert Kennedy. Based on available evidence, the committee concluded that President Kennedy was assassinated as a result of a conspiracy, although no trail of a conspiracy could be established. They also concluded that on the basis of scientific acoustical evidence two gunmen fired at the President, although no second gunman could be identified. In addition, the committee concluded that the possibility of conspiracy did exist in the cases of Dr. King and Robert Kennedy, although no specific individuals or organizations could be pinpointed as being involved. * The Dow-Jones Index for 30 major industrial stocks topped the 10,000 mark for the first time. (1999) * Twenty-Third Amendment to US Constitution ratified that the District of Columbia residents were given the right to vote in presidential elections. (1961). * * Lt. William L. Calley, Jr., is convicted of murder for the 1968 massacre at My Lai, Vietnam. (19171) Charges are dropped against his superior officers. * Birthdays: Christopher Lambert, Eugene McCarthy, E. Power Biggs, John Tyler (the first president to marry while in office), Sam Walton, Denton True (Cy) Young, Earl Christian Campbell, Bud Cort, Eric Idle, John Joseph McLaughlin, Kurt Thomas.

Mar 29-Apr 2: National Youth Violence Prevention Campaign

DAILY THOUGHTS

To handle our anger with full adequacy and competence, an elaborate, flexible response system is required. It is no wonder, then, that to learn to handle our anger is a complex task which usually cannot be completed before adulthood, or even midlife, and which often is never completed. The Road Less Traveled

I like it when she's on her back with both legs on one of my shoulders. - Hal, 32 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know

The first thing that the child must acquire in order to be actively disciplined, is...the difference between good and evil. - Maria Montessori. Dr. Buff's 365 Day Parenting Calendar

Arabian mythology refers to Al-Zahra, a mountain stream with mystical powers that will change the gender of anyone who drinks or bathes in its waters. Gay & Lesbian Calendar

PediaTRICK. If your child has a canker sore inside her mouth or oral blisters from the chicken pox, or hand-foot-mouth virus, have her rinse her mouth with a solution of antihistamine elixir (such as Benadryl) and an antacid suspension (such as adult Mylanta or Maalox) before meals and at bedtime. For a child 5 or younger, use 1/4 teaspoon of each product; for an older child, use 1/2 teaspoon of each. Parents Tips & Tricks

It is not the critic that counts. The credit belongs to the one who is actually in the arena; who strives valiantly. - Theodore Roosevelt. Achieve Your Dreams

Things to Be Happy About:  Sunning on a balcony. Losses recovered. A really long kiss. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

 It's hard not to like someone who likes you. Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

Loving is caring enough to tell the truth. If Life is a Game, These are the Rules (Editor:  In a loving way. Don't fashion it after "Radical Honestly," however. Be sure it includes your heart.)

If the only vision we have of ourselves comes from the social mirror - from the current social paradigm and from the opinions, perceptions and paradigms of the people around us - our view of ourselves is like the reflection in the crazy-mirror room at the carnival. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Accept the things you can't change. When you look at the personal limitations someone like Helen Keller had to deal with, and the extent to which she overcame them - not to mention the tremendous contribution she made with her life - you can see that it is possible to cooperate with the inescapable. Simplify Your Life

Arm Circles:  Stand up straight with feet shoulder width apart. Raise both arms straight out to the sides at shoulder height. (Go on, try it right now.) Begin by making small circles forward with your arms, gradually enlarging the circles with each rotation until the circles are as large as you can make them. Repeat the process with backward circles. Repeat the sequence 3 times. Stress Busters (Did you do it?  What are you waiting for? Give it a shot.)

Get a throwaway camera and a small photo album. Give it to your kids and suggest they take pictures of their Beanie Babies, or other dolls in different poses and group shots. It provides great memories and something they can put into the album to share with friends. To Do Today

Don't be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so. - Belva Davis. Win the Day!

La aguamarina (ahgwahmahREEnah) Aquamarine. La cocina es del color aguamarina. The kitchen is an aquamarine color. Living Language

TODAY'S ISSUE: TIME

The day is of infinite length for him who knows how to appreciate and use it. - Goethe

How many time have we said, "I need another three or four hours every day to get my work done?"

I'm coming to understand that it wouldn't matter if I had twenty-six-hour days. I'd still have too much work on my desk.

There are, of course, practical approaches to inhibiting our need for more time. Taking less on is one way I've begun to deal with my tendency to overcommit. That may be a luxury in some ways, but scaling back our expectations of our selves is part of the equation, too. I know I'm incapable of certain kinds of work as well as a massive work load.

o I want to be rich and die young, or have somewhat less, materially, and be around long enough to appreciate my old age?

Learning how to apportion time and tasks is a lifelong process. I'll focus on my strengths today, or not take on too much. Meditations For Men Who Do Too Much

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. Simplify your life. What Every Man Needs to Know Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

BOOK OF THE WEEK

 Joy, Melanie, Why We Love Dogs, Eat Pigs, and Wear Cows: The belief system that enables us to eat some animals and not others. This groundbreaking work explores the psychology of carnism. Our willingness to eat animals - and only some animals at that - says the author, is enabled only through blocking out what we know - about their capacity for consciousness and their ability to feel pain; about the inhumane husbandry practiced all over the world simply to satisfy our taste for foods we don;'t need in our diet; about the health risks involved in eating flesh of any king; and on and on. In other words, we continue to eat meat and fish only out of a seemingly intransigent denial. Sure to spark conversation, controversy and debate, this book challenges readers not only to own up to the choices they make each and every time they consume animal-based foods but moreover to change the way they think about food forever. Conari Press, www.redwheelweiser.com, 2009 ISBN 978-1-57324-461-9

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  • Reid Baer - A Man Overboard - Interview of the Month - www.menstuff.org/columns/overboard/archive.html
  • Reid Baer - Poetry - poetry read on YouTube - www.menstuff.org/columns/baer/archive.html
  • Molly Barrow - Shrink About This - www.menstuff.org/columns/barrow/archive.html
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  • Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships - from an expert on dating after 50. www.menstuff.org/columns/blake/archive.html
  • Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers - on fathering issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/greatfathers/archive.html
  • Ted Braude - BoysWork - a columnist in the The Detroit Free Press "Body and Mind" section www.menstuff.org/columns/braude/archive.html
  • Armin Brott - A Father's Guide - hosts "Positive Parenting" on radio www.menstuff.org/columns/brott/archive.html
  • Dan Bulf - Get Real - weekly pod cast on men's issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/bulf/archive.html
  • Ken Byers - Transition - on men's life transitions - www.menstuff.org/columns/byers/archive.html
  • Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk - college students get answers to their questions - www.menstuff.org/columns/sextalk/archive.html
  • Neil Chethik - Relationships - www.menstuff.org/columns/chethik/archive.html
  • Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto - relationship issues discussed - www.menstuff.org/columns/susie&otto/archive.html
  • David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
  • Forrest Craver - Spirituality & Social Change - www.menstuff.org/columns/craver/archive.html
  • Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships - relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/cutright/archive.html
  • Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen - great recipes for men - www.menstuff.org/columns/desmarais/archive.html
  • Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome - www.menstuff.org/columns/diamond/archive.html
  • Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen - answers to relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/doclov/archive.html
  • Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change - creating change in your life - www.menstuff.org/columns/durdant/archive.html
  • Irv Engel - The Real Deal - www.menstuff.org/columns/engel/archive.html
  • Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice - with Nancy Fagan - www.menstuf.org/columns/fagan/archive.html
  • Warren Farrell - Men's Issues: Facts and Perspectives www.menstuff.org/columns/farrell/archive.html
  • Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up - www.menstuff.org/columns/felder/archive.html
  • Marty Friedman - Strong Men, Strong Marriage - www.menstuff.org/columns/friedman/archive.html
  • Kim Garretson - Mansgland - using humor to encourage prostate exams - www.menstuff.org/columns/mansgland/archive.html
  • Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You - www.menstuff.org/columns/goodman/archive.html
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  • Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks - being a father www.menstuff.org/columns/daddyman/archive.html
  • John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor - He writes a syndicated biweekly humor column about parenting and family life. www.menstuff.org/columns/hershey/archive.html
  • Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work, www.menstuff.org/columns/hoeber/archive.html
  • Patrick Houser - Fathers Make a World of Difference, www.menstuff.org/columns/houser/archive.html
  • Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On - on sex - www.menstuff.org/columns/getiton/archive.html
  • Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston - www.menstuff.org/columns/kahn/archive.html
  • Patrick Kennedy - Seniors - www.menstuff.org/columns/kennedy/archive.html
  • Joe Kort - Gaydar - to increase understanding between gay and het men - www.menstuff.org/columns/kort/archive.html
  • David Kundtz - David Kundtz - presents seminars, workshops, retreats, and conference presentations in the areas of men's emotional health, stress management, and spirituality. www.menstuff.org/columns/kundtz/archive.html
  • Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/drdad/archive.html
  • Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
  • Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy on Feminism, www.menstuff.org/columns/mcelroy/archive.html
  • Robert N. Minor - Minor Details - on GBT sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/minordetails/archive.html
  • Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology - www.menstuff.org/columns/moore/archive.html
  • Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man - general questions about men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/neder/archive.html
  • Marty Nemko - Worklife - general questions about men and work - www.menstuff.org/columns/nemko/archive.html
  • Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger - general information on men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/newberger/archive.html
  • Linda Nielsen - Embracing the Father - working with the father/daughter relationship. www.menstuff.org/columns/nielsen/archive.html
  • Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence - working with schools, teachers and parents to end school violence - www.menstuff.org/columns/noll/archive.html
  • Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads - helping men maintain that which makes us men, instead of becoming hairy Mom-substitutes - www.menstuff.org/columns/phillips/archive.html
  • Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism - is a social commentator on political correctness. www.menstuff.org/columns/roberts/archive.html
  • Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex
  • Glenn Sacks - His Side - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/sacks/archive.html
  • Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence - serving the under-represented www.menstuff.org/columns/schuett/archive.html
  • Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision - social commentator on circumcision - www.menstuff.org/columns/schutt/archive.html
  • Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response - www.menstuff.org/columns/schwyzer/archive.html
  • Michael Shaffran - Men's Issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/shaffran/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • George Simons - Bellicose Veins - is a US specialist in intercultural and gender communication who hangs out in Mandelieu - la Napoule, France, as well as in Santa Cruz, CA. www.menstuff.org/columns/simons/archive.html
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  • David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave - www.menstuff.org/columns/smith/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
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  • Mary Lou St Lucas - A Mother's Love - www.menstuf.org/columns/stlucas/archive.html
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AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

March is International Listening Awareness, International Mirth, *Irish-American Heritage, Mental Retardation Awareness, Music in Our Schools, National Chronic Fatigue Syndrome Awareness, National Collision Awareness, National Colorectal Cancer Awareness, Ethics Awareness; National Humane Education Awareness, National Kidney, National Nutrition, National On-Hold, National Professional Social Worker's, National Talk with Your Teen about Sex, Optimism, Play-the-Recorder, Poison Prevention Awareness, Red Cross, Rosacea Awareness, Workplace Eye Health and Safety; Youth Art; Humorists are Artists and Gender Equality Month: Time to honor both genders; time to meditate on the equality of women and men, on the respect due to both women and men, and on Goddess-God manifesting as woman and man. The Mystic's Wheel of the Year. In keeping with this, be sure to read our writing under "Newsbytes" called Mothers Aren't Essential in Raising Children. Also, check out our books on Feminism, Sexism, Sex Roles, and Social Theory in this regard. Month.

Mar 12-Apr 14: Deaf History Month. Mar 1-5: No Name Calling Week. Mar 1-7 The day the production and use of land mines was outlawed world-wide. The Mystic's Wheel of the Year. National Write a Letter of Appreciation; Return the Borrowed Books; Universal Human Beings Week. Mar 1-10: Bike Week. Mar 2-9: Autograph Collecting, Conserve Water/Detect-a-Leak; National Professional Pet Sitters; *Save Your Vision Week. Mar 4-8: Human Resource ; National Procrastination; National School Breakfast; Newspaper in Education Week. Mar 10-16: Girl Scout; Pulmonary Rehabilitation Week. Mar 11-17: Camp Fire Boys and Girls Birthday Week. Mar 13-20: Education Advocacy; National Toad Hollow Week. Mar 17-23: Anonymous Giving; Jobs for Teens; National Agriculture; National Poison Prevention Week. Mar 18-24: National Bubble; National Clutter Awareness; National Secondhand Shopping; National Spring Fever Week. Mar 20-26: Week of Solidarity with the People's Struggle Against Racism and Racial Discrimination (UN). Mar 24-30: National Cleaning Week. Mar 29-Apr 2: National Youth Violence Prevention Campaign. Mar 1: National March to College; National Pig. National Salesperson's; "Read Across America Day" sponsored by the National Education Association in honor of the birthday of Dr. Seuss (Theordor Geisel). Mar 2: I Want You to Be Happy; National Anthem; What if Cats and Dogs had Opposable Thumbs Day. Mar 3: Hug a GI; Old Inauguration Day. Mar 6: Stop Bad Service Day. Mar 8: Panic Day. Mar 10: Dream 2002; Johnny Appleseed Day. Mar 11: National Organize Your Home Day. Mar 12: National Open an Umbrella Indoors Day. Mar 14: Absolutely Incredible Kid Day. Mar 15: Curlew; Freedom of Information Day. Mar 16: Save the Florida Panther Day. Mar 17: St. Patrick's Day. Mar 19: Great American Meatout; National Agriculture; Proposal Day. Mar 20: Flower; National Tree Planting, Memory; Single Parents; South Africa Human Rights Day; International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination (UN). Mar 21:  As Young as You Feel; New Year's Day (India). Mar 22: Near Miss; World Meteorological Day (UN). Mar 23: World Tuberculosis Day (UN). Mar 24: Mothering Day (ENG); National Family; Old New Year's; Pecan Day. Mar 25: Legal Assistants; Make Up Your Own Holiday Day. Mar 26: American Diabetes Alert. Mar 27: Qing Ming Festival (China). Mar 27:  National Mom and Pop Business Owners; Youth Day (Taiwan); Texas Love the Children Day. Mar 29: I Am in Control; Doctor's Day.

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