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WEEKLY NEWSBYTES - Updated 11/23/09

Raise Kids Like a Man
AMA Says Marijuana Has Medical Uses
Prison Treatment Cuts Could Feed Recidivism
Colleges Use Breath Tests to Curb Rowdy Behavior at Games Domestic Abuse Fraud: Rarely Suspected and Rarely Detected Sex With Someone New -- Every Night

Fatherstuff | Healthstuff | Menstuff | Relationstuff | Sexstuff
Neil Chethik
Michael Taylor
Mark Brandenburg
Warren Farrell
Molly Barrow

Men's Issues
Shrink About This
Mary Lou St Lucas
Susie & Otto Collins
Robert N Minor
Dennis W. Neder
Carey Roberts

Forrest Craver
Tom Blake
Judith & Jim
Joe Kort
Stuart Wilde

Spirituality &
Social Change
Armin Brott
Linda Nielsen
Mark Phillips
Michael Shaffran
Marty Nemko

David Kundtz
Kathy Noll
Peter Alsop
Lion Goodman
Nancy Fagan

Youth Violence
Ted Braude
Tim Hartnett

Bruce Van Horn

Bruce Linton

Irv Engel
Ken Byers
The Cutrights
George Simons

On Life
Martin G. Friedman
R. Don Steele
Reena Sommer
Leonard Felder
Patrick Kennedy
Ron DesMarais
Sandra Caron
Eli Newberger
Dr. Williams
Jed Diamond

Men's Issues
Sex Health
Glenn Sacks
Patrick Houser
Barry Durdant-Hollamby
David Steinberg
The Advice Diva

John Hershey
Wendy McElroy
Rick Hanson

David Smith

Peter Baylies

Just One Thing
At Home Dads

David Copeland & Ron Louis

Words Can Heal
Independent Means

Getting It On

K C Wilson

On Healing
About Kids
Health Tips
World AIDS Day
No Circumcision
Prostate Cancer
Testicular Cancer


If you're afraid of going too far, you won't go far enough. - Michael Kinsley

The nearest way to glory -- a shortcut, as it were -- is to strive to be what you wish to be thought to be - quoted in Cicero, 44 BC. -- Socrates (469-399 BC) Greek Philosopher

Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. -- Sir Winston Churchill

Take time to laugh - it is the music of the soul. -- From an old English prayer.

Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you will help them become what they are capable of becoming. -- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

He who smiles rather than rages is always the stronger. -- Japanese proverb

The world is good-natured to people who are good natured. -- William Makepeace Thackeray

Beauty, truth, friendship, love, creation – these are the great values of life. We can’t prove them, or explain them, yet they are the most stable things in our lives. -- Jesse Herman Holmes

He who finds diamonds must grapple in mud and mire because diamonds are not found in polished stones. They are made. -- Henry B. Wilson

Just as I shall select my ship when I am about to go on a voyage, or my house when I propose to take a residence, so I shall choose my death when I am about to depart from life. - Seneca

To know that one has a secret is to know half the secret itself. - Edwin Way Teale

Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death. - Auntie Mame

Resolve to be thyself: and know, that he/Would finds himself, loses his misery. - Matthew Arnold

It isn't a matter of black is beautiful as much as it is white is not all that's beautiful. Bill Cosby


Monthly; New this Week

Mark Brandenburg - Got Rituals?
Ted Braude -
It’s Not A Friendly World - II
Armin Brott -
Communicating With Your Spouse
Tim Hartnett - The Dad I want to Be
Independent Means -
The DollarDiva Story
Bruce Linton - Nuturing Fathers
Linda Nielsen -
Uplifting Father-Daughter Stories
Kathy Noll -
Child Violence - How to Prevent Your Child from Becoming a Statistic
Mark Phillips -
Achieving Results
David B. Smith -
A Cheap Holiday in Other People's Misery (catching up with Mordechai Vanunu in Israel)
Reena Sommer -
The Benefits of Therapy and Counseling
Mary Lou St Lucas -
Blending Families with Pumpkin and Pecans



Ken Byers - The Holidays
Jed Diamond - Are Men All That Bad or Are Our Small Gametes to Blame?
Kim Garretson -
The Haunt of Fear
Health Tips - Build a Strong Family
John Hershey -
What the garden gives us: Food, and a cornucopia of useful symbols
David Kuntz -
Friends and Close Friends
Bruce Van Horne -
Money Saving Ideas
Words Can Heal -
The Greatest Gift My Dad Ever Gave Me


Monthly; New this Week'

Peter Alsop - Kids Songs
Molly Barrow -
Powerful Positive Thinking
Calendar of Events -
Forrest Craver -
Young Men Today – Looking for a Path Forward in the Long Emergency
Ron DesMarais -
Blueberry Soup
Barry Durdant-Hollamby -
Selling Our Present For An Illusory Future
Rick Hanson -
Are You on Your Own Side?
Patrick Kennedy -
Oh No, Not Again! (Or: Brush the dust off that resume)
Wendy McElroy -
Preserving Culture, or Curtailing Freedom?
Marty Nemko -
Social Entrepreneurialism
Eli Newberger -
Numbers -
Do You Read While in the Bathroom?
Q&A -
Taking Large Amounts of Vitamin C Prevents Colds
Carey Roberts - The Exploitation of the Mentally Ill by Abuse Shelters
Glenn Sacks - The Future of the American Father
Trudy Schuett -
Keep up on the latest at the Domestic Violence Examiner
George Simons - Patriotism? Too much of a good thing? Co-opted? You bet!
Surprise - Can Meditation Transform the World?
Michael Taylor -
Why are men so uncomfortable watching “Chick Flicks”?
Stuart Wilde -
The Eternal Tao
K.C. Wilson -
Hear It From A Mom


Monthly; New this Week

  The Advice Diva - Romantic Vacations
Tom Blake -
The 14 G's of dating and living while growing older
Neil Chethik -
Preparing for the Death of a Father
Otto & Susie Collins -
This almost never works in relationships
David Copeland & Ron Louis -
Is My Girlfriend Lying About Her Sexual Past?
Layne & Paul Cutright - Five Stages of Partnership
DocLove -
Did Thommy Lee ever Fall in Love with His Roommate?
Irv Engel -
You can Live Without It
Nancy Fagan -
Creating the Greatest Love Story Ever
Marty Friedman -
Pursuing Your Wife - After the Wedding
Lion Goodman -
Take Care of Yourself
Dennis W. Neder -
Maybe He’ll be Mine If I Get Pregnant?
Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski - (Not received by press time.)
Don Steele - Strippers and Topless Waitress?
Michael Webb -
A Well Seasoned Courtship


Monthly; New this Week

Sandra L. Caron - Men and Intimacy
Leonard Felder -
Are You "Mr. Ever-Ready?"
Paul Joannides - Intercourse Distress
Joe Kort -
Whatever Form It Takes, Intolerance Hurts
Robert N. Minor -
‘Tis the Season of More Mythology
David Steinburg - Lap Dancing in San Francisco and the Evolving Face of Sex Work in America 0r Why so many People Leave their Hearts, Minds, Inhibitions, Fears, Virginity and Heterosexuality in the City by the Bay
Dr. Williams -
The Top Men's Health Information Stories that apply to YOU



Rape and the U. S. Chamber of Commerce
Pepsi and Walmart helping your kids want more junk food
Let's Can Bud's Fan Can
The White Knot Campaign
Claire's Offering Flasks to Tween Girls
Bratz Belt Too Suggestive?
MillerCoors has Santa Claus promoting pub crawls? Bad idea.
Binge Drinking T-Shirts at Old Navy Stores
Doll pulled off shelves over Islamic message
JC Penney's "Teen Sex" Ad
The Boys at Rotten Cotton promote rape
Bimbo City delivers poor messages
Bikini clad girl gives Timberlake a "suck-job" on the Super Bowl
From the Kinky Folks Who Brought Us 'No Boundaries' Panties for Teen Girls
Wal Mart tells junior girls to kick, hit, spray bug spray in boys' faces
Albertsons' Thinks Violence is Funny
Nordstrom Heeds Call
Anheuser-Busch Wants to Spyke Up Your Life
Wal Mart Continues to Encourage 'No Boundaries"
msn.com Promotes False Circumcision Story!
Dodge Glorifies Women Headbutting Men
Raise your voice. Wear the tag
The Trouble with Boys
Dove Self-Esteem Fund
Qantas Tags All Men as Potential Molesters
PBS's Assault on Fathers
Dior Markets 'Addict 2' Fragrance to Teen Girls
New Orleans Times-Picayune Makes Fun of DV
Home Depot makes Toxic Choices
DishNetwork Promotes Violence Against Men
People Magazine Makes a Pedophile a Star
American Greeting Sticks it to Men
Paris Hilton Washes Cars for Carl's Jr.
Durex - Bravo for this Caped Crusader
FedEx/Fox find a Kick in the Groin Funny
Fred Meyer and the Stupid Factory
MGA Promotes Blind-Date Play for 6-Year-Olds
Television Networks Refuse Religious Commercial
Verizon tells fathers to "Leave Your Daughter Alone"
A & F is for Losers
The Pill - A Woman's Only Issue?
Watch Out - The New "Shell" Game can Cost You - Big Time
Kidnapping Children May Become Legal in California
New Potter Movie Condones Domestic Violence
Fred Meyer Sells "Boys are Smelley" Products
Child Supermodel Site is Questionable
Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage "No Boundaries" for Young Girls"
Commercial List Brokers Target Children
Boys Are Stupid & Happy Bunny Campaigns


Seventy-one columns. Monthly; Weekly

The Advice Diva - The Advice Diva
Peter Alsop - Songs
Reid Baer - A Man Overboard
Reid Baer - Poetry
Molly Barrow - Shrink About This
Peter Baylies -
At Home Dads
Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships
Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers
Ted Braude - BoysWork
Armin Brott -
A Father's Guide
Dan Bulf -
Get Real
Ken Byers - Transition
Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk
Neil Chethik -
Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto
David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women
Forrest Craver -
Spirituality & Social Change
Layne & Paul Cutright -
Powerful Partnerships
Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen
Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome
Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen
Barry Durdant-Hollamby -
Creating Change
Irv Engel -
The Real Deal
Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice
Warren Farrell -
Does Feminism Discriminate Against Men? A Debate
Leonard Felder -
Wake Up or Break Up
Marty Friedman -
Strong Men, Strong Marriage
Kim Garretson -
Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You
Liz Halliday -
In a Man's World
Rick Hanson - Just One Thing
Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks
John Hershey -
Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor
Gary Hoeber -
Psychotherapy as Soul Work
Patrick Houser -
Fathers Make a World of Difference
Paul Joannides -
The Guide to Getting It On
Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston
Patrick Kennedy - Seniors
Joe Kort -
David Kundtz - David Kundtz
Bruce Linton -
Dr. Dad
Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women
Wendy McElroy -
Wendy McElroy
Robert N. Minor -
Minor Details
Robert L. Moore -
Man & Mythology
Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man
Marty Nemko - Worklife
Eli Newberger -
Eli Newberger
Linda Nielsen -
Embracing Your Father
Kathy Noll -
Bullies and Youth Violence
Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads
Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism
Perry Rose -
Dating, Relationship, Sex
Glenn Sacks - His Side
Trudy Schuett -
Domestic Violence
Carl J. Schutt -
Hugo Schwyzer -
A Pro-feminist's Response
Michael Shaffran -
Men's Issues
Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim
Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy
George Simons -
Bellicose Veins
Andy Smith -
Hard Hat Brotherhood
David B. Smith -
Fighting Father Dave
Jim Sniechowski. - Judith & Jim
Jim Sniechowski. - The New Intimacy
Reena Sommer - Custody
R. Don Steele - Don Steele
David Steinberg -
Comes Naturally
Mary Lou St Lucas -
A Mother's Love
Surprise -
Surprise Author
Steven Svoboda -
Fatherhood, Activism and the Law
Michael Taylor -
A New Conversation with Men
Bruce Van Horn - Yoga for Men
Michael Webb -
Secrets of Blissful Relationships
Stuart Wilde -
Dr.Williams -
Sex Health
KC Wilson - On Gender Politics

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It is most dangerous to lead as the head of the world if we don't use our heart. Gordon Clay

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